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I guy on here recently messaged me that he had just had his first anal penetration. He said it hurt at first, but then got better. He admitted to me that he liked being a bottom. I was glad he took the risk and decided to write this...
Suddenly by the droves men are discovering that they have a fantastic prostate back there, thanks to the internet.
I'd say then when 90% of men think about m2m fucking, they fantasize about being the bottom, not the top. Which is why 'tops' for m2m sex are harder to find, in case you hadn't noticed.
Probably because the concept of just 'letting go' and getting 'done' –without having to jump through hoops first, and then doing all the physical labor while their partner just puts their legs up in the air (and who is either deciding how good of a job you are doing for them.. or else is begging for a repeat performance by you) isn't the kind of elation that a lot of men ever get to experience. They were taught that their job in life was to be the doer, the provider, the heavy lifter for the benefit of someone else, including in bed. So, it's a great new high to just give up the reins and let someone else do the driving for once while you take it all in.
To consider about the physical action of m2m anal sex:
Prior WARM UP makes a world of difference to your comfort for BOTH parties! The sphincter is naturally shut tight and involuntarily resists being forcibly expanded by anything at all, let alone a dick or a dildo... and it signals pain if forced! And once it happens, it takes awhile to get past the pain, so the entire experience is more anxious and 'tight' than it needs to be.
Many newbies have no clue (yet) about how to approach penetration. Some just jam it in as quickly as possible, often even missing the mark a couple of times.. OUCH! And also out of fear that they'll lose their erection due to the bottom's protestations of pain. So just "getting it in" = "grin and bear it".. if not near-****.
Don't let an initial botched experience ruin your desire to ever try anal again....
Your anus "wants" to open VERY willingly if FIRST well lubed up, tickled and played with and 'attended to' lovingly –just as if it were a clitoris– with only a finger tip at first and then with a lot of wet tongue-probing. You've already taken an enema and are fresh and clean as a whistle, aren't you?
Always insist on short-clipped and smooth-filed finger nails. Long nails tear anal tissue easily and ruin not only the moment but also allow entry for infection.
A good fucker will never allow his partner to feel any pain. And an experience bottom will speak up immediately.
Once you're 'warmed up' and your anus is really liking what's going on, counter any tendency to resist entry by very gently PUSHING as if on the pot as his VERY WELL-LUBED cock, dildo or whatever enters. Be KIND to yourself and DON'T ALLOW yourself ever to be entered cold-turkey or with a dry cock with just a swipe of watery spit on it... unless you genuinely seek the pain of ****, of course.
Being the Bottom is all about letting go, submitting, and allowing yourself to 'BE pleasured' BY someone else... so...
I don't know how other men think, but my opinion is that the Top should remain 100% attentive to the state his Bottom's cock. Make sure that the bottom remains turned on moment by moment and be willing to masturbate him and keep him hard and well lubed if the Bottom wants that. And always get him off, either while fucking or right after without having to be cajoled to do this. Often the desire to 'be helpful' to one's partner fades after coming, as we all know... But leaving your bottom 'un-cum' is just really lousy form and does not earn you Brownie Points for a repeat date. I personally don't like getting fucked (or anything at all) if I get the feeling that all the top cares about is getting his own rocks off and not mine just as much. I need a partner to WANT me cum. In fact, I believe in complete equality between two men.. if one guy is willing to do something, the other guy should at least be willing to try to reciprocate in the same way, even if it never actually comes to that.
Guys need to teach each other and pass their skills forward.
Sorry for the SHOUTING; I'd use italics instead if I knew how...