Bondage has always interested me for a lot of reasons. I love it as an actual art form, especially when Japanese Shibari is practiced.

Here's a very basic example:


That's known as a Dragonfly Sleeve. The subject is an older girlfriend of mind and she was a very lovely (and willing subject) She's what is termed a true 'Rope Slut'.

Anyway, back to the topic.

I love the 'power' you get over a person by actually restraining them. I am by nature, a dominate type of person and that 'power' appeals to me.

Of course, with that comes a great responsibility. You MUST play safe at all times. There are ways of doing bondage that are in fact safe and ways that are NOT!

I'm not giving a tutorial here so if your interested, seek out and/or find someone to teach you the RIGHT way to do things. PLEASE!

I am NOT into pain, I am not into what is commonly referred to as BDSM, although I have been exposed to that lifestyle quite a bit over the years through my VERY good friend (Best friend actually) Cory.

She has FULLY lived the BDSM life for quite some time and I owe quite a bit of my own knowledge about bondage and about BDSM to her.

She is also a recognized Shibari Master and teaches classes both here in Indy and up in Chicago on the art of Shibari.

I dabble in bondage as an adjunct to sex. It's fun and my girlfriend enjoys it also not mention the fact that she looks DAMN sexy hogtied

I have various ropes, cuffs and other 'things' I've accumulated over the years and can do a pretty good job of tying someone up but you know, it's the anticipation that's the turn-on. You have to 'play' it right to get the full benefit if you will.

A blindfold is a amazing thing in this regard!

I can drive my much beloved Mona CRAZY with the anticipation of what I'm going to do to her NEXT!

As I said, I have all manner of 'toys' including the single most AWESOME sex toy ever invented.

The Hitachi Magic Wand! (I have two of them, one white, one black) I've also modified both, rewired them actually and attached MUCH longer power cords to them..

I can make a dead person CUM with one of those puppies my friends!

Forces orgasms? Been there, done that LOL

I LOVE tying Ms. Mona up and driving her to within an inch of her sexual sanity with that thing. She loves it as well BTW. I can get her to the point where (I've actually timed it) she'll have an orgasm roughly every 30 secs or so, on and on and on and on and on.

Then, after she's seemingly spent, I'll finally untie her and slide my rock hard cock into that SOPPING wet pussy of hers and fuck the daylights out of her.

At that point, as she's told me herself, she has a MUCH deeper type of orgasm that just totally engulfs her. It's amazing.

Here's an interesting FACT, a lot of rope-sluts succumb to sub-drop or rope-drop after you untie them. The whole session has been so intense for them that once it's over, they become just so overwhelmed physically, they can do nothing but curl up and lay there for 10-15 mins. I've seen this personally, many times.

It's the sign of a job well done.