i was the same , guys did'nt interest me at all but when i saw all these different size and shape cocks i started getting erections i wanted to feel another guys cock in my hand and suck it so i went to a cruising area i heard about and well to cut a long story short i did and i liked it .... a lot .... i was about 50yo then and well i still go there now and then .

There are many things that influence your sexual preferences and likes. Even though you are 36, you are still aware of the stigma and social judging of being gay. Or bi. Makes no difference since we are talking about the desire to have sex with another guy. Many guys will either repress or dismiss the curiosity or the desire to get naked with another guy simply as a way to avoid the stigma or judging. Being on this site allows you to honestly evaluate your desires without the repressive reactions. I was in a gay relationship for a few years with a sweet and passionate guy. When I joined the military I started hanging around a few women to hide my true gay nature. Stupidest thing I have ever done. I became whole and authentic only when I embraced who I am and started to embrace guys again.

Maybe you are becoming more comfortable about enjoying sex. If another guy wants to help you have an orgasm, why not enjoy the sex. Then you might be comfortable helping him have an orgasm or just have fun being together.

human sexuality is constantly in evolution. If you feel now bisexual doesn't mean anything wrong. It only shows that you are reaching your sexual maturity. Enjoy your life!

I have been here around 3 years. I always thought I was straight but love showing off here and masturbating on cam. I am 56.

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