Ive had one that swears I've gotten her off over the phone just listening to me. Without ever having messed with herself. Just a lot of conversation about the things I was going to do to her later and how I was feeling about it. Our shared connection has been a solid bond for decades though. Im the reason she figured out she likes to be man-handled and dominated in the bedroom. Shes taught me a few things about myself as well over the years.