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Started by #17515 [Ignore] 11,Sep,11 19:42
New Comment Rating: 0 Similar topics: 1.20 -> 40M movie limit 2.Friendship with opposing lifestyles 3.About friends lists 4.Friends list 5.Apology from cum4me for deleting friends Comments: | ||
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I would not pay attention to this, but since normal server operation was affected I looked into it and found out that many members put thousands of other members in their friends. I don't know why they do this, but I can't imagine someone who can remember over 50 friends. And if you don't remember who the person is, how the hell can you put them into your friends? So I put a limit of 100 members which is more than enough for any reasonable application. And if you have some other non-reasonable purposes, you have to pay for it.
Premium members have limit of 500 and diamond - 5000.
therefor: only to find a hot, sexy members page again, to see good pics again or to look if there are some new pics there.
- only to notice the name,(Maybe one photo to choose) for finding it again, shortly, and not seen for everyone, like the "favourites" now,
so everyone, who visited a hot members page and he wants to remember or to visit later again can put the name of this list to click it on again
Why cant it just consentrate on pics uploaded during the past week only (irrespected if its "friend" of mine or not???
In general the site has improved a lot over the past few years with good features being introduced! Unfortunately it seems to be going backwards now! I am watching these developments closely and will decide soon if I delete all my "friends" from the list and start new, or if I delete my entire profile and go to another site!
Paying for this or facebook or any other social network site is not an option for me - out of principal!
It's really not so bad. An administrator can do whatever he pleases really. He already provides a great service, a little belt tightening is expected.
This reminds me of when people start complaining that their favorite band releases an album that they don't like. Oh the horror!
Anyway, I feel like a fully engaged member of the site - my wife and I have a great time - and it's totally free. I accept the ads and the bandwidth limits, and all other rules, because.... Wait for it.... It's free!
You see, I get constant complaints about so-called bullies. Sometimes it's about Monted, sometimes it's about Ererready sometimes it's about someone else. But it's always about one member. Something like "He spoils the site for everyone being rude in public chat / burning my points". And this site is organized so that one person cannot stand an organized group. Even a small group can ban anyone from public chat or burn points of 1 member. Yet here they are, "bullies", who can spoil the site for a person who have 1000 of friends in their list. What those 1000 friends are worth then???
My points is - friends lists with hundreds of members are not for friends at all. I don't know what they serve for, but definitely not for friends.
May be those friendslist are used to see full size pics or view vids free of charge or to in other ways increase viewing convenience, but those are premium features and should be paid for.
Now I was thinking: isn't it possible to put a field in everybody's profile that keeps track what the last time was that that button was used and then check on 'real' recent uploads? By this a friend that hasn't logged in in the meantime, can be skipped all the way.
And perhaps you could just go for the pics that had been uploaded after the last check? The server still needs to check everyone's friends but after hitting an old pic it can move on to the next friend.
I had no idea about this new 100 friends thing. I don't have a problem with it actually, I just wish I knew why I logged on and found I had about 30 PMs of people deleting me from their friends list. I thought I'd done something to offend a lot of people and didn't get to see any notification of your decision.
Why don't you consider deleting the accounts of all the users who join, post NO pics yet think it's ok to visit our page and simply add us to their friends without asking, saying anything to us or even commenting at all? If you looked into this and deleted them I reckon it would free up a large amount of the headroom the site needs.
Thereby, I can understand your point of view, Admin, in reducing serverload. But as stated so often here, perhaps giving a little notice in advance would have been nice. Like you did with the multiple accounts recently.
If I offended any one by deleting them, I'm sorry, I never meant to do so.
As for me, I can live with a friends limit although, I'd prefer not to have one. I typically use the friends feature to track people I'm interested in as they put up new pix. When I go into my webpage and open the Social/Your Friends Recent Uploads it prompts me to check out what else they're up to.
Either way. Can we somehow select which Friends to keep or will they be cropped in some particular fashion such as date etc?
Or perhaps just a bad case of inter-cranial rectal inversion?
Means that you do not necessarily have to delete grayed ones.
why this limit?
is this site going to be paysite very soon?
Hello "Someone" May I be the one to tell you that it already is a pay site. The free part is just to get you into it and the features are all paid for. WHY? The owner doesn't want to work for a living so he/she is taking advantage of the people through sex. Basically he/she is pimping you out everytime you make a payment.
Since I usually don't add guys, the number of users that have befriendied me are 10 times higher than the number I have in my own friends list. Still harder than I thought though to trim my friends list down to under 100 users
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