We were bi sexual swingers, she was older than me. She changed me from a homophobic jerk, to an open minded sex machine. When I was stationed overseas for a year, I gave her permission to play within our circle of friends. I promised not to have sex. After a year of waiting, on the way home from the airport, she told me she had left the circle because she had caught herpes. By the time we got home she had told me she had almost daily meetings with one guy, and he had given it to her. So I was pissed, she wouldn't tell me who she was seeing. We lived like roommates for a while until I figured out the guy was my best friend who had been avoiding me like the plauge. I dropped her like a bad habbit. Now I'm stuck with a faithful wife, who doesn't cook, clean, do laundry, or have sex. She just gets bigger and bigger.