as a gay guy, here's my two cents:

i stopped camming on MSN with other gay guys years ago, because the guy on the other end has three, four or five cam-contacts at the same time where between he switches, and if he cums he is gone without even saying thanks or goodbye!

i don't think it is anything other than rude! so, i stopped being game to that! there's my pics, jack off on that!!

the last few weeks (i'm here for about two months now) i had private conversations with guys, gay, bi & straight that went on for hours and ended with climax!! THAT was nice!!

mindblowing HOT conversations and sometimes IT (fantasy with a guy/big dick/anal/whatever!) happened what they would have happened for all their lives! i would always prefer a guy that can tell me what he wants from me, or want to do with me, and share that fantasy, to a guy that is flashing and waving his pole, however big it is, i don't care!

to defend the male mentality, i can say that males would always see something good when they cum and the search of a girl who would make this for them is very hard. from the female point of view is not very pleasant i know, but I guess you could always find a point of agreement, is not it?