Started by #269207 [Ignore] 04,Jun,12 11:55
 | why do straight men like cock??? i consider myself straight but yet i have a longing to suck cock and get fucked in the ass,i say im straight and not gay because iv no desire to be sucked by a man or to fuck a man,maybe im a bit bi i dont know,anyone else an opinion on this??? |
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As for getting fucked in the ass, why would you want to do it? Because it feels good, that's why. Many men find prostate stimulation thru anal penetration highly pleasurable. Some men can even reach sexual climax and ejaculate this way without any stimulation to the penis. This has nothing to do with sexual orientation. I'm as gay as they come and I find the physical pleasure from being fucked to be minimal at most. But many straight men really like it. Heaven knows I've fucked plenty of them.
I’ve posted a lot of things, and we have exchanged thoughts, and I think that you are really the ‘Yoda’ of the Gay Community, on this site!!
I have to ask, Great One, why is there still such a negative stigma, when so many states are passing same-gender marriage laws, and there is this HUGE movement into anal play, among heterosexual couples?
I have so many gay friends, male, and female, and I lived near San Francisco, for 15 years, and even there, sometimes, there is the ‘stigma’ like it was for ‘coloreds’ in the 1950’s.
For Fck’s sake, the Greeks ‘Perfected’ Anal play, 2,000 years ago!! Why is everyone so upset, and concerned with it now??
On to your questions.
First about "straight cocksuckers", yes, I know this sounds like a contradiction, but I don't know what else to call them. I don't know if you've heard of Dan Savage and his sex advice column Savage Love, but I've been reading it pretty much from day one, more than twenty years now. (Savagelove.net on the internet if it is not carried in a paper where you live. He's the True and Genuine Great One.) More than once he has mentioned that a lot of otherwise straight men like to suck cocks. I was a bit skeptical, even though I've met some men like this in my personal life. Some of the best blow jobs I've ever gotten have been from straight men. Then I joined this site and found that straight men who suck cocks are crawling out of the woodwork. They seem to be everywhere.
Now, about anal intercourse. When I became sexually active back in the middle sixties, gay sex was very much oral. When two men had sex, they kissed and sucked each other off. Yes, anal sex happened then, but there was very much the attitude that "nice people" didn't do that sort of thing.
Now, the pendulum seems to have swung the other way. Watching gay porn it's easy to get the idea that gay sex is anal intercourse and any oral activity is merely foreplay. The truth is that many gay men rarely or never have anal sex, either as inserter or receptor. I've read estimates that this number is as high as one third.
So is there a stigma attached to anal sex? Yes, of course there is. One reason, naturally, is sanitation. We cannot escape the fact that the anus is the orifice thru which waste material leaves the body. Waste material that is just loaded with germs. Another is spread of disease. Anal sex is high risk. In this age of AIDS/HIV that is something that must be considered.
Finally, I find your remark "HUGE movement into anal play among heterosexual couples" to be very interesting. Being gay, this has been pretty much below my radar, though I guess I had some awareness of it. This has got to be a good thing for gay rights. When straight people (women and men both) discover that taking it in the ass can be a lot of fun, then gay people aren't going to look so strange.
Cheers.
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