As Steffi states be very careful.
In regards to this particular lady doing the soliciting be aware that she has no visible photos and no members recent comments, also she gives no country code in the message.
I would submit this could be a scam and in any respect anyone who contacts the member is the same type of person who would give their credit card or bank account details to a Nigerian scammer or Indian telemarketer.

need to see you first! show us some pics here!