Let's all agree that those inclined to make dismissive, snarky, or negative comments on this topic must first read some of the relevant historical, sociological, and anthropological literature. Okay? Let's also all agree that, yes, some het guys have gay sex on the road to later identifying as bi or gay. However, that fact has nothing to do with whether some absolutely het guys also have guy-on-guy sex and enjoy it. Let's review a few facts:

First, in ancient times, such as in ancient Greece, the average adult male had sex with girls, boys, young men, and women. Obviously, a large majority of men possessing the biological markers for heterosexuality, whatever they nay be, had and enjoyed sex with males.

Second, today, many absolutely het guys experiment with various kinds of guy-on-guy sex as kids, and frequently enjoy it, even to the point of orgasm.

Third, guy-on-guy sex for sexual gratification is common in all-male environments like boarding schools, the military, and religious communities, for example. Much to most of this involves het guys.

Fourth, the mechanics of sexual pleasure are primarily concerned with what actions are performed on what body parts, NOT gender/sex. Does it matter whether one's own hand, a machine/device/toy, a woman's hand, or another guy's hand strokes one's penis? Does it matter whether the mouth doing the fellating is attached to a body with a penis or a vagina? Isn't the end the same in any of these scenarios, orgasm? Clearly, one must differentiate between sexual pleasure and sexual orientation in this discussion. The two are NOT the same.

Fifth, there's the “inconvenient” fact of the biology of male anal pleasure. All physiologically normal guys have the same plumbing, regardless of sexual orientation. The anal region is an erogenous zone possessing many nerve endings. All men possess a prostate gland, which is involved in the ejaculation/orgasm process, that is conveniently located snugly against the rectum, ready for stimulation during receptive anal sex. In fact, such stimulation can frequently lead to an especially intense and long orgasm, even without any direct penile stimulation, a fact taken advantage of in animal husbandry for the collection of semen/sperm. So, if many gay/bi guys enjoy it, so would many absolutely het guys.  In fact, the prostate is sometimes called the male G-spot or the P-spot. 

Though this list could be lengthened considerably, the point should be clear: there is plenty of guy-on-guy pleasure that het guys should be able to enjoy. The real question is whether particular het guys can focus enough on the pleasure to overcome any gender/sex issues. Many won't be able to, as I wouldn't in attempting to deal sexually with women, but many others likely could. Why should that be so difficult to understand?

MY POINT: So, I'd like to hear from all the het guys out there, the REAL ones, who have or would like to have sex with guys. What appeals to you about sex with guys—physically, psychologically, and emotionally? What is unique or different about it for you in all these ways? What do you get out of it? Is there something uniquely appealing about male bodies and sex with guys? What obstacles do you encounter in your pursuit of sex with guys? Please discuss and share your experiences, desires, fantasies, thoughts, etc. 

(And, yes, analogous threads could be addressed to het women, lesbians, and gay guys, but this is NOT any of those threads! You can start your own thread, which I would eagerly read. Okay? I want this thread to be a safe space for the sexually diversified het boys out there.)