Sigh, ok I'll bite

First off a sexy bitch bitching in Russian is seriously fucking hot

I understand where Peach is coming from with this whole friend thing and it happens to all of us to some extent. It's more an issue with women though I believe.

Having a gf who was also a member here I could see this first hand, everyone seemed to want to friend you. And there was a time when you could friend everyone back if you were seeking popularity before the friend limit was imposed.

When that happenend it seemed like all of my private messages were friend deletions, by the hundreds. It was a shitty time here. Being that I am a paid member I have no such friend restrictions so if someone deleted me I didn't take offense and delete them back, I understand there is only room for so many.

In fact I don't have all that many "friends" in my list that I've befriended. I don't friend everyone back. I might have a hundred some.. Some of whom I practically never even talk to but I won't delete them. Realistically you can never keep up with talking with all these people anyway. You can keep in touch though.

I rarely even look at my friend list, I'll talk to whomever as time allows. If you're a friend or not and you send me a PM, I will reply to you when I can. For women here it is different, it is just far too exhausting to keep up with all the messages, and many must be ignored, don't take offense, it's just the way it is.

If I get a random friending, I may or may not friend back depending on a few things.. If you have no pics I'm not going to friend you, you could be gone tomorrow. Far better chance I will friend you back if you have quality sexy pics on you page.

For me, interacting with my friends here used to be much easier because for those of us that used to frequent the main chatroom, this is where you would see most of your friends and you could all converse together. Chat the way it is now is hit or miss and I don't see many of the people I used to and haven't chatted with them in a long time.

Bottom line, if you're going to friend someone out of the blue, don't expect them to friend you back if you've no previous history with the member, and because of that don't take offence, especially with women. It's always better to establish communication first to even know you want to be friends with someone in the first place.. If you recieve a random befriending from someone, it is up to you to just ignore them or not, they may delete you later but so what, if they don't talk to you. They might just really like your page and want it handy and not be sociable. Take it as a compliment. You can only have so many "friends" anyway..

But feel free to befriend me if you haven't already, or else

I would not be that sharp ... since you do not respond to a nice messages either. I can understand your behavior but take a fair play from your side too.

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I said u were purrrrty a few days ago, u gave me this link...

Geeez!

Some russian rage always turns me on

To be perfectly honest..I dont realky give a shit about being uour friend. I like your pics, but I am so tired of sending messages to these uptite bitches who get insulted at what your saying . Then there is you is is insulted that nobody says shit....I fucking give up...I am taking some chalj and drawing big black cocks on the sidewalk in front of my neibors house for the rest of the evening...thanks...

Before the hundred friends rule was in place, befriending someone on the site was a way to keep up to date on an individuals photos. A quick check of Your Friends Recent Uploads and you'd see all the new images. As far as I can tell, that's what is going on here and in my opinion, it's a compliment rather than a slam as they're telling you that you're appreciated.

I truly am sorry that it enrages you that your being befriend this way but, think of it as an invitation to get to know them. Send a private message telling them that if they truly want to be friends, leave a message and lets talk; to begin, the tell me something about yourself. Otherwise, I (meaning you) don't care to be befriended by those who only want to keep up with my photos.

Any way, those are my thoughts on the subject. Keep calm and don't let that which bothers you get you down. Look on the bright side and be happy about the friends you do have on the site.

Cheers

I get the same thing. Guys will ADD me to the friends list, without even contacting me. I will always respond to their ADD by thanking them for doing so. They won't respond. A week or so later I will contact them again and say 'btw, it is ok for you to say 'Hi' ', but they won't respond to that either. A few days after that, I will usually just Ban them as they obviously are not interested in having a conversation or even saying 'Hi'.

I would prefer if the 'ADD as a Friend' feature would send a request for you to either accept or deny, rather than automatically adding you to their list of friends. At least then there might be an incentive for them to actually contact you and get to know a bit about you before they click the ADD button. But it's not the end of the world. Far more important things in life to worry about.