As a submissive I enjoy being verbally abused.When me and my ex wife got into B.D.S.M she became my Mistress and was always calling me her sissy bitch.After a while she invited a Master to our house.Then more verbal abuse came:sissy slut,faggot,dirty cock sucking whore,anal bitch and others.

Who cares? It's on you to determine your value and if youre doing what you want which many men look at as demeaning because men are thought not to kneel or be subservient to a man, then you should not take it personal.
You are what you are, a man on his knees subservient to a man shoving dick in your face possibly down your throat and most of the time shoting a load in your cum dump mouth without a second thought. Why? Because you are what you are..a cum swallowing dicksucker.
Be happy, if you feel somehow slighted get off that horse and just quit kneeling in front of men with your mouth open and saying ah!
Listen I am not being mean to you; as long as he doesn't harm you, you can not be harmed when he calls you what you are.

no, i don't like verbal abuse, i don't like any kind of abuse. and i don't understand the turn-on...

that's probably why i dont like american (gay) porn. how much "take it boy" and "take that big dick bitch" can one take?

I only get called oh god over an over

Honesty is the best policy