Unicorn, JohnS is just a loser If he gets me kicked off the site I will not lose any **** over it there are 100's of other sites like this

Is it possible that vested interests have set a trap?

Paranoia strikes deep, into your life it will creep, it starts when you're always afraid, you step out of line the man comes and takes you away.......

Get a life JohnS do you really thing that people use their real names when posting on here. If they do there are some really weirdly named people here

I know nothing about you only that you are an interfering person and I don't care about your paranoia

I agree bella, he shoots his mouth off and you have no way of discussing the issue with him as he only accepts friends only

'Cat-fishing' is perhaps not the most accurate expression. But it's not just the 'fun and games' that you'd like to dismiss it as. People ARE hurt and made to feel like fools when the smoking hot girl they've been lavishing praise on turns out to be a just a smokescreen for a dude with bad intentions....

And let's face it, this place has (had) plenty of those dudes...you say it's built on fantasy, and perhaps that's YOUR experience or expectations, but for the vast majority of people here it's about showing off YOURSELF, your REAL self. (Physically, anyways) When others aren't playing by the rules, it diminishes and demeans your participation.

I'm not trying to put the spotlight on "Marlene," but when she starts a 'look at me!' thread, she's done the work for me. And when we look at "her" and see web-derived pics, it's not at all unfair to wonder if "she's" not just another of the numerous ill-intentioned dudes who've played that card before...and to ask for some kind of assurance that we're not being taken for a ride. Should everyone have a verification pic?? Well, I say yes, it would go a long way to making this site MORE FUN (without killing the 'fantasy'), but it goes DOUBLY TRUE for anyone posting pics that can be found elsewhere...

A fair question, although I have been verified......the pictures that I post of me are pictures what I am comfortable posting. The other pictures are for fun.

History, About 3 plus years ago, I sent a "verification" picture that I had taken at work and forwarded it to two members, mr7inches and JohnS who both were verified members, I cannot remember the third. Bottom line, I was then verified. Although my verification status has not changed, you will no longer see mr7inches name as he has deleted his original account and JohnS recently withdrew his verification. JohnS, regardless of how you feel, I am real and you know that!