Started by #460523 [Ignore] 05,Feb,16 22:31
 | y do you ban people and do not tell them y you banned them.I have had a few and do not know what I did to them. I **** that I and here to have fun and bullshit with anyone love to talk and have fun. |
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I believe that what the original poster of this thread topic is speaking about is blacklisting. Banning a member and blacklisting a member are two very different things. If you're banned from the site, POOF!, one day you're gone and your IP is blocked so you cannot create a new profile. If you are blacklisted, an individual member has decided that they do not want you to view their page nor do they want to view yours. Somettimes there might be valid reasons and the majority of the time, the blacklister is just an extremely weak minded whack-a-doodle. When you have been blacklisted,there is absolutely no contact with the member that has blacklisted you, basically, you're just not there......
Only the member is banned and She/He can come back under a different name.If he were to ban a IP any one on wi-fi would be banned,such as a hotel or apartment complex,coffee shop etc.
Been blacklisted by 2 for reasons I don't know or care.Think it was when they asked a question on the main page and I answered.Never chatted with either one of them.
To further illustrate how dumb he is, he responded to my post but didn't use the [Reply] option. His post was something to the effect that I posted what he considered a lame comment on one of his pictures and wanted to know if my "dumba$$" comment was flagged and if I lost any points. I noticed in his bio, under the additional information, he said he was 64 years of age and that he was a "Southern gentleman". Rather than to continue to exchange thoughts in his blog, I sent him a private message saying that if that's the way a "Southern gentleman" from Tennessee acts, I was glad I was from Michigan to which I received a response saying that that explained everything, I'm a Northerner and arrogant! The old fart blacklisted me, which I'm okay with, I gifted him "the finger" and he used 50 of his precious points to destroy it.....so I nuked him.
Now here's a little caveat to my story, he's deleted his whiny ass blog, uploaded some pictures ( probably to earn points ) to destroy the bomb I sent AND he changed his bio by shaving 15 years off his age, now his profile says he's 49 and he also removed the part about being a "Southern gentleman"! Maybe he's trying to keep it real but I still think he's a pathetic old fart!
I found his blog over the top by calling members "c@cksuckers" and "dumba$$es" because of something that he was directly responsible for. If "flagging" pictures and losing points causes that type of reaction in an adult, it makes me wonder how he reacts to and copes with life's curve balls.
Kindly. I've had to blacklist some very weird ppl however it's been very few. Most people I encounter are super nice. I don't know if I've been blacklisted but really don't let this eat at you personally. I've had encounters with you and you're a nice guy.
Number of members who befriended cox: 208
Number of members who blacklisted cox: 1
Number of members whom cox has blacklisted: 20
This is an adult site, out of curiosity, what do you consider inappropriate? What if you just chose to ignore that member, do you think [s]he would continue to message you if there was no response? I guess that everyone has their own way of dealing with matters but I still feel that quite often members will opt for blacklisting for flimsy reasons.
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Some people do blacklist because they can. Out of how many ever thousand members I feel my number of blacklists are warranted and I won't tolerate anyone treating me with disrespect or sending **** filled comments or being vindictive for no apparent reason. I am a pleasant kind person and treat people with kindness. I have learned not everyone is capable of playing nice. I support the blacklist feature. If someone blacklists you for simply writing hello on their wall, well it's their loss really isn't it? If someone one blacklisted me for something that simple I'd probably be happy they did bc they are probably going to be a person that won't 'play nice" in the realm of this site to begin with. I don't take it personal if someone blacklists me or doesn't respond. It's their choice. I do take offense as I said to people leaving nasty remarks on my page and or via private messaging. When deleting and ignoring these people fail. Yep I blacklist is a second.
Not going to ask a person why they felt the need to vote my pic down multiple times in a row. I figure there is a screw loose and I'm not here to be messed with. I'm here to have fun. I honestly don't care if someone chose to blacklist me. I have many good contacts on here and if for any reason someone blacklisted me it's their choice. I am
Not going to be offended nor do i expect to know why. I don't go around aimlessly blacklisting people but the feature is there and if I personally feel I need to use it i will and do. I've never asked anyone to give me the courtesy of any explanations. I've left very nice messages and compliments to ppl. They view my page and don't reply. I don't take it personal nor need to feel they should explain why they choose not to respond. It's their right to respond or not. I also currently have a man voting down my pics as soon as he sees they hit the main page. Why? Who knows. Who cares. Jealousy. Probably. He has ego issues. Probably. Have I blacklisted him no. Am I going to ask him why he continues to do this? No. Again, I only use the feature when I personally feel it warranted.
Number of members who befriended *****: 18
Number of members who blacklisted *****: 1
Number of members whom ***** has blacklisted: 249
A SYD member who has been befriended by only 18 other members yet has blacklisted 249!
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I am here minding my own business, yet some people go looking to cause problems. A perfect example is cox lying saying that I "vote down pics as not hot". In my 2.5 years here, I cannot recall voting for any pictures, ever.
Please, don't allow this to eat at you.
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