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Started by #532686 [Ignore] 08,Apr,17 16:27
I'm straight, married, in my mid 40's and I get blown by guys. The more I look around, the more common this seems to be, but what's your take on the matter? I was freaked out by it at first, and even a bit ashamed, but it's super convenient, and my wife isn't into sucking me off, so I've got a couple guys that I can hit up for a BJ whenever I want. The visual isn't so great, but you get used to it, and they have no problem with me playing porn. Pretty clearly, guys who love to suck dick are totally all about providing the best experience, so whatever makes it work best for me is what they want. I think this is why shit like this goes on all the time but nobody ever talks about it. It's totally hedonistic. It's all about me and getting the kind of BJ I'm in the mood for, be it a five minute quickie, or a leisurely half hour or so of getting my brains sucked out. Guys are usually pretty practical, low drama creatures, so I've got to imagine that getting quality head on demand would get a lot of guys over the yuck factor.

I probably get 4-5 BJs a month, but the great thing is, it's all up to me. There's no real relationship to worry about (though we are friendly), no drama, and if I'm not horny, I just don't go. No one's going to call me to ask where I've been or if I want to come around today. On the other hand, if I'm going through a horny phase, I could swing by every day and it would also be no big deal. It's just so straight forward! I don't have to manscape, or bring flowers, I just have to take a seat and get blown.

Oh, and do I have to point out that someone who really loves to suck dick tends to do it really well? My one guy is gay and he's all about throat action, he likes to take it deep and massage it with this throat muscles. The other guy is bi and prefers to do some crazy shit with his tongue. Both not only swallow, but love doing it. Neither wants anything more from me and they don't even try to get undressed. No drama, no commitment, no worrying about it being anything more than it actually is, just a blowjob.

Again, this all took some getting used to, but where the fuck are you going to find a woman who'll blow you whenever you want and with no hidden agenda? Honestly, it's fucking great and I highly recommend it! But is it just me? Thanks.
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By thebeewolf [Ignore] 30,Apr,20 11:58 other posts 
In my opinion, the OP is absolutely correct and CountryCouple is completely wrong. If a man is only sexually attracted to women that man is straight. If a woman is only sexually attracted to men, that woman is straight. This does not preclude them from doing things with their same sex. In my opinion.

As for myself, I would never kiss a man, date a man, fall in love with a man, cohabitate with a man, marry a man, etc. It's just not there. And yet I have had guys suck my cock. I won't say more about it because the OP describes the situation perfectly.

I super get it if you want to make someone's sexual orientation about their behavior and not what they feel inside. I think you're wrong, but hey live and let live. But I will say this: stop insisting that other people agree with you. It's not on them to make you comfortable with your categories. Deal with it.


By #460385 17,Apr,17 07:46
I'm not trying to spoil shit for anyone. All I'm saying is call it what it is. If your a guy fucking or sucking another guy your not straight. That was the topic. Who the fuck is talking black, white, and robots. It seems there is a phobia of some to say your bi. If you like getting sucked by other dudes. Then man up and say that. Call it what it is. But don't say your 100% straight. You don't have to convince me with your bullshit. You need to convince yourself you're not straight.
By RealTitsLover [Ignore] 17,Apr,17 10:45 other posts 
I agree about the phobia of acknowledging that you're bisexual around here, everyone acts like that's gonna change who they are or something. Some seem confused by the fact that...

Romantic preference and sexual preference are two different things. Being bisexual doesn't mean you'd be happy dating either sex, it just means that you occasionally enjoy sexual activity involving either one.
By MM_DD [Ignore] 17,Apr,17 18:26 other posts 
I do agree there's a lot of phobia about admission of bisexuality, especially among men. I could name several examples pretty easily. However, I don't think this is the case for the OP. Sexual activity frequently does coincide with orientation, but there are exceptions.
By MM_DD [Ignore] 17,Apr,17 18:15 other posts  ⤴
Actually, you are the only one in this thread who is harping on the "100% straight" thing. The OP indicated he was straight, period. He likes getting sucked by dudes not because he's attracted to them but because they're giving him damn good head. It's also convenient and it's fulfilling a need for him that he's not getting at home. It has nothing to do with "manning up." You have a right to your opinion just as much as anyone else, but you don't have to be a supreme jerk just because someone disagrees with you.
By #460385 17,Apr,17 19:34
Not trying to be a dick. I expressed my opinion. I think a man getting head from another guy should not call himself straight. That's my opinion, like you said. When a girl eats another pussy, she usually admits she is bisexual. Just wondering why the men can't do the same. Must be a "macho thing".
By MM_DD [Ignore] 17,Apr,17 19:50 other posts 
Is the girl being eaten automatically bisexual because another woman goes down on her?
By #511804 17,Apr,17 21:09
I would say yes.
By #588373 31,May,19 00:32⤴
Well what is a man called who fucks a fleshlight, plastic sex doll, water melon, a tube or jo into a toilet bowl or for that matter, his hands.They don't make the man who is ENGAGING in sex with all of the above anything but horny wanting to blow a load.
So if a man sticks his dick in a mouth( a man's mouth) with the objective of blowing a load down his throat, zipping up once done and live goes on, whats the difference.
It's just another orifice to cum in, one you don't have to flush , wash afterwards, take to dinner before hand or worry about saying you raped him afterwards, or ask you for anything else period.
If a str8 man abandons women for his hands, sex doll, fleshlight melon or any other hole he can shoot his load in
I would say, find him a label.
Otherwise its just another fuckin hole to unload in PERIOD.
It has nothing to do with macho, or anything but I need to nut and I dont want to jo. I opt for a hot lubed mouth with suction lips and throat, a tongue and no strings, no mess swallower.
How do I know? I aaked straight men and thats the feedback I got.They were not concerned about my feelings because they knew They were right.
By #511804 17,Apr,17 21:08⤴
I think countryboy is correct, if you enjoy sucking another guy you are bisexual. You maybe the type that is more heterosexual but still enjoy sucking a guy.

For the most part you prefer the pleasures of sex with women or men if you are female.

I know male to married male was common when I joined the internet in 1993.
By #460385 17,Apr,17 21:24
Yes, I think whether your giving or receiving it doesn't matter. You are engaging in a sexual act with the same sex. It's hard for me to understand the conflict here. It's like the guys who get a blowjob and try to justify to their wife that it wasn't cheating cause they didn't fuck the girl. It's still cheating. All I was saying from the beginning was, call it what it is.
By MM_DD [Ignore] 17,Apr,17 21:50 other posts 
OK, you're switching subjects here. We're talking about sexual orientation, not cheating. Two completely different things. We're simply going to have to agree to disagree on this. You see sexual orientation as solely being determined by an act, and I say an act does not necessarily indicate an orientation in every single circumstance. You keep saying, "Call it what it is," but that's far too simplistic when you're talking about something that can be as complex as sexuality. What "it is" is a straight-identified guy who's getting sucked off while watching straight porn and being totally passive throughout. He is not reciprocating.

One more question: If a guy sticks his dick through a gloryhole and gets sucked off without knowing the gender of the person sucking his dick, what does that make him?
By MM_DD [Ignore] 17,Apr,17 21:53 other posts  ⤴
The OP here is *not* sucking another guy; he is being sucked.
By #460385 17,Apr,17 22:06
Again, whether being sucked or doing the sucking. It is a sexual act with the same sex knowingly. His OP was not getting sucked through a gloryhole. He is aware of who was sucking his cock. Whether he is watching straight porn or he is watching Sponge Bob it has no effect on the act in question.
By MM_DD [Ignore] 18,Apr,17 06:32 other posts 
You didn't answer my question, but that's fine. We'll just have to agree to disagree on this matter. But just so you know, you are actually being a dick (and not the good kind) when you demean someone else by telling them they need to "man up" or stop being so "macho" just because they don't agree with you.
By #460385 18,Apr,17 08:25
Thanks. I guess that would apply to all who express their opinion here in the forum. We all will never agree all the time. Doesn't mean we are being dicks. But thanks for your comments.
--------------------------------------- added after 4 minutes

And to answer your question. If you are stupid enough to stick your cock through a hole in a wall and have no idea who is putting it in their mouth. Then I guess that would make you as confused as you were before you put your cock through the hole.


By #46165 25,Apr,17 21:01
Every dick ive sucked belonged to a straight guy


By #460385 20,Apr,17 18:31
@ MM_DD. You forgot Merriam-Webster Dictionary. It says....... Engaging in sexual activity with partners of more than one gender. I can get the definition for "engaging" if you need.
By MM_DD [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 21:51 other posts 
You're clearly just being a dick now, so I'm through with you.
By #460385 20,Apr,17 22:03
No, I clearly stated what you failed to share with others. There is a big difference with the "attraction" of the opposite sex and "engaging" with the opposite sex. Just saying.
By MM_DD [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 22:10 other posts 
And I addressed that in my post, plus I used a definition that had the word "engaging" in it. I guess reading comprehension isn't one of your strong suits. What exactly is the "big difference" between "attraction" and "engaging," in your opinion?
By #460385 21,Apr,17 08:07
Having thoughts or fantasies. And actually doing the act.
By MM_DD [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 17:02 other posts 
So you think "engaging" is what determines your sexuality, not "thoughts or fantasies" based on attraction to a particular gender?
By #460385 21,Apr,17 21:49
So if I say, that dude is good looking. He's got a nice body and cock. That makes me gay because I can admire another good looking man that takes care of himself? Or does it make me gay when I stick his cock in my ass or mouth?
By MM_DD [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 22:31 other posts 
Admiring or appreciating another person's attractiveness isn't the same as being sexually attracted to that person. I can appreciate an attractive woman without being attracted to her. And I was sexually attracted to males years before I ever had sex with another guy. A sexual act doesn't necessarily make you anything; it's the desire/attraction behind it that would determine that.
By #460385 22,Apr,17 14:13
If I fuck a man's ass while being married to a woman that doesn't make me bisexual? Do you hear yourself?


By #460385 15,Apr,17 18:36
If a straight guy is getting his dick sucked by another dude. Then he is not straight. Why do these posts always say the same shit. If your fucking straight then your not letting another guy take your dick down his throat. So no it's not common. Just saying.
By #532686 15,Apr,17 18:55
So then, if a gay guy was getting BJs from a woman because it was super convenient quality head, but had absolutely no sexual attraction to her, and in fact watched gay porn while getting blown, you'd consider him to not be gay?

Also, if you've seen several other posts talking about straight guys getting blown by other guys, how can you say that it's not common? How would you know that? Seeing that it's an underground thing, I think that more or less only the people involved with doing it, or the people who know them would be in a position to say.
By #460385 16,Apr,17 08:47
That's right. If a gay guy gets blown by a girl, he is not 100% gay. Gay is gay, straight is straight. You can't categorize sexuality out of convenience. If you are sexual with men and women, whether attracted to them or not. Or as you put it "out of convenience" you are bisexual. Not 100% straight nor 100% gay.
By #532686 16,Apr,17 15:45
Countryboy, so then by your definition, if there was a device that simulated BJs, and a guy used them, he would indeed be at least a little robosexual. And straight guys who use Fleshlights are actually not entirely straight, but at least a little horny for silicon. If you don't think this is the case, please explain the disconnect. Are you saying that someone can use an intimate device to get off without being sexually attracted to it but not be able to "use" a human in the same regard? Or are you saying that the simple act of sexual contact makes all the difference? If so, why wouldn't people who use devices be a bit robosexual?
By MM_DD [Ignore] 16,Apr,17 22:21 other posts  ⤴
Countryboy: If you want to apply that strict, black-and-white view of sexuality to yourself, that's all well and good; but that's far too rigid a system to embrace all the nuances of every person's sexuality. Most gay guys have had sex with women at some point in their lives, and that doesn't automatically make them bisexual. There's a gay member on here who just recently talked about being at a sex party where he let several women suck his dick, but if you follow this guy at all, you know he has no genuine sexual attraction to women and is very much into men sexually. Same goes in reverse with the OP, but obviously with a caveat. Yes, there's no shortage of people out there who are full of BS and contradict themselves when it comes to their own sexuality (men tend to be really bad about that, I've noticed), but I don't think the OP falls into that category. He sounds pretty genuine. Basically he is "being serviced." If anything, these experiences have opened him up to embracing an aspect of his own sexuality he never thought possible before.
By mr_blue [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 14:44 other posts 
Please list the medical and dictionary definition of gay,straight and bisexual,and you'll see you are kidding yourself....If you have sex with the same gender you are gay,if you have had sex with both you are bi...Simple....I couldn't care less where and who people have sex with,they are people at the end of the day,but all this grey area crap is self defeating...If you label yourself as straight but suck cock,people will call you a bisexual...You label yourself and people will challenge the labels you attach to yourself....This is definitely a guy problem....Most women would say they are bi if they have even kissed a girl.....
By RealTitsLover [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 14:52 other posts 
Yeah, I'm pretty sure most guys are afraid it'll make them seem or feel less masculine.
By mr_blue [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 15:37 other posts 
I just see it as someone who is lying to themselves..If someone is scared of revealing their sexuality to those around them, friends,family etc, maybe they need to let go of the people around them whose attitudes stink...It's really an attitude issue,if you think your friends will not talk to you because of your sexuality,you are probably better off without them in your life...
By MM_DD [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 18:10 other posts  ⤴
Oxford Dictionary defines bisexual as "sexually attracted not exclusively to people of one particular gender; attracted to both men and women."

MedicineNet defines bisexual as "an individual who engages in both heterosexual and homosexual sexual relations." But look at their definition of homosexual: "a person sexually attracted to persons of the same sex."

Therein lies the problem. Bisexuality is defined on MedicineNet as sexual activity, not as an orientation. I'm referring to bisexuality as an orientation. The OP has engaged in bisexual activity because he's getting blowjobs from guys, but his orientation is not bisexual because he is not attracted to guys.

If a woman kissing another woman makes her bisexual, then hell, that would make about 80-90% of the women in the world bisexual, which is just absurd. And since most gay men have had sex with a woman at some point in their lives (including my husband!), then that would make all of those self-identified gay men automatically bisexual, which is equally absurd. A sex act does NOT necessarily reflect sexual orientation.

The American Psychological Association defines bisexual as "having emotional, romantic, or sexual attractions to both men and women." That sounds much more appropriate than MedicineNet's definition.

And once again, the OP is BEING sucked; he is NOT sucking cock.

Now who's kidding himself?
By mr_blue [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 18:40 other posts 
I'm not kidding myself at all,i am just saying if you label yourself one way,people will challenge that view when you act in a contradictory way.....And those definitions prove that... That's all I'm saying...And I've asked lots of women about this,nearly all say they are bi,but have a preference for men...I honestly think the men who label themselves as straight but engage in an gay act are afraid of the response they will receive from their respective peer groups so justify it to themselves as just sex,but that's stoopid.. you are getting sexual gratification from the same sex...Why do that if you have no inclination to be in sexual relationship with a dude? And i still think this is a guy in denial issue anyway....Cuz women just admit they are bi..Men justify their same sex acts with whatever reason,cuz their is still stigma attached to being gay.... That's the real issue....
By MM_DD [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 21:48 other posts 
Well, I just flat-out disagree with you and think you're painting everybody with far too broad a stroke. It's one thing to question or challenge somebody when their actions don't seem to match their label—I've frequently done that myself—but the dude who started this thread has explained very clearly why he's doing it, and it's not because he's attracted to the guys giving him head. But you and several others just can't seem to wrap your heads around that, so there's really nothing left to say. Yes, there's certainly a bigger stigma on guys who are in sexual relationships with other guys...no question about that. Given the number of women who make out with each other at the drop of a hat (frequently as a show for guys or because they're drunk), I find it very difficult to believe that all those women are genuinely bi, because like I said, that would encompass probably 80% of women. But whatever. You have a right to your opinion, and I do agree with you on some points but I don't believe the OP is a bisexual in denial about it.
By mr_blue [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 22:30 other posts 
And I have stated that if you label yourself as something then act in way that contradicts that you will be challenged.... OP first words are "I'm straight",then goes on to explain his cock is getting sucked by dudes....So for a lot of people that means he is bisexual....Once or twice as experimentation when you are discovering your sexuality is one thing, but if you keep doing it you are bisexual....As for asking the women thing,I have asked around 20,so you are the one making broad assumptions....Who is sucking the OP's cock ? Dudes,why?,cuz his wife doesn't suck cock,why doesn't he find a woman to suck his cock then? Cuz he is bisexual....But has a preference for women,but his wife doesn't suck,so he gets dudes to suck him,still bisexual....You can't still keep eating meat and call yourself a vegetarian..
By MM_DD [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 22:57 other posts 
Dude, the OP is NOT bisexual because he is NOT sexually attracted to guys. He's already clearly explained why he found dudes instead of women. Why can't you just accept that it's all about the convenience and enjoyment of the act, not about the person doing it to him? What if it was actually a woman sucking him off and he wasn't attracted to her in any way whatsoever...would that suddenly change his orientation? Of course not. And you said in your previous post "most women would say they are bi if they have even kissed a girl," so YOU are the one who started off with the broad assumption. Now you're saying it's just 20 women you've talked to...that's a far cry from "most," dude. This thread is about sexual activity and sexual orientation, not eating habits. It's fine to challenge someone on what may sound like a contradiction, but you're not even trying to understand where he's coming from.
By mr_blue [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 23:23 other posts 
I can understand where he's coming from,he is getting his cock sucked by a dude.. it doesn't matter if he is sexually attracted to the person,I have had drunken exploits and woke up next to someone who I have had no attraction to...But I'm not doing it with a guy....And i maybe I should have said most women I spoke to ,still doesn't change my comment, I'm accurate about the 20 women I spoke to,they said kissing a woman whilst married to a man is bisexual behaviour...And the vegetarian comment is called an analogy fyi....I think you are the one who cannot accept that the guy labelled himself,and that label is being challenged,...In my simple little world bisexual means playing with both sexes...And that is what the OP is doing, playing with both... Doesn't matter the reason,he is still playing with both...
By MM_DD [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 06:54 other posts 
Ah...now we're finally getting somewhere: Bisexual BEHAVIOR vs. bisexual ORIENTATION. The OP is definitely engaging in bisexual behavior, this is true; but his sexual orientation is still straight, not bisexual. That's the difference I'm trying to emphasize here. I'm accepting how the OP has labeled himself; you are the who is not accepting that. And...I'm also accepting that you are challenging that, but I've been trying to explain looking at it from a different perspective. And I know very well what an analogy is; I'm just saying yours isn't a good one here. Being accurate about the 20 women you know in your small circle is a far cry from "most women" throughout the entire world.
By mr_blue [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 08:15 other posts 
We're not getting anywhere, bisexual behaviour is just the same as sexual orientation to me....And that's​ the problem...I don't care who pokes who,but if you are getting sucked or fucked by the same sex that's what makes it self deluding to call yourself straight....You are bisexual, at the very least...So the OP is bisexual,married to a woman who he fucks,but gets head from a dude...If he had no attraction to to the person sucking his cock he wouldn't be hard....My simple little brain will stick with my definitions of straight bi and gay...And if you are a vegetarian and keep eating meat is a good analogy....Cuz vegetarians do the same thing in justifying their behaviour with some over complicated stuff just for a bit of steak...
If you think sexual behaviour is no reflection on sexual orientation i think that is bonkers...
And so what about the women I asked,you are the one pushing that I seem to mean the entire female population of this planet....I think you could clearly see what I meant cuz it's the point you keep harping on about,and most women will say the OP is bi,....Just ask the women you know....See what they say... Anyway this will just go round in circles...So peace out...
By MM_DD [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 13:55 other posts 
You go right ahead and stick with your simple brain and your simple definitions, even if they are contrary to reality. By your definition my husband would be a bisexual all because he had sex with a woman once while he was drunk, and I can assure you he is unquestionably and emphatically gay. You are only speaking for yourself, not for "most women," as you claim, because you're not even a woman in the first place. I couldn't care less what the women I know would think or say about it, because their opinion is moot. In addition, you're putting words into my mouth that I didn't say, so any further discussion is pointless. Peace out to you as well.
By mr_blue [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 20:23 other posts 
And your husband is bi but with a preference for men..I don't know him so your point is moot too.... I'm expressing an opinion that you can't seem to accept and that many people will share with me...I said peace out,and you still come back... I've explained my simple little view on sexuality...And you are making assumptions about the women I asked,but that is moot according to you but you keep referring it....so it must be a valid point....i didn't​ put any words into your mouth,I said you knew what I meant,and you did cuz you keep talking about one point. 'The women I asked' and not the question I actually asked....So knock yourself out....I think its funny how people over complicate such a simple issues.....And my simple little definitions haven't alienated me from my gay friends,they just know what my view on sexuality is...And just an fyi they haven't fucked any women they've always known that they were gay.

Or they would say they are bisexual....With a preference for men..
By MM_DD [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 20:31 other posts 
My husband is NOT bisexual with a preference for men. He is homosexual and totally into guys. Just because he had an experience with a woman years ago when he was still sorting out his sexuality does NOT automatically make him bisexual. You are a mental case. Your unyielding black-and-white thinking about other people's sexuality is as exhausting as it is ridiculously unrealistic. It's wonderful for you in your circle that everyone has a black-and-white way of looking at this, but in the overall world it doesn't always work that way. Now, this discussion is over. I say, peace out...unless you want to continue wasting your time and mine.
By mr_blue [Ignore] 22,Apr,17 12:41 other posts 
My unyielding attitude makes sure,that to others there in absolutely no doubt in their mind about my view and therefore doesn't lead to conflict...My black and white thinking on this makes my life simple, it's you that cannot accept that I think black and white on this....It was never a discussion...The OP is repeatedly getting his cock sucked by a dude he is not experimenting after the second one,so he is bisexual.....
By MM_DD [Ignore] 22,Apr,17 12:49 other posts 
And in my opinion he is not. We will simply disagree on this matter. The conversation is done. Have a good weekend.
By RealTitsLover [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 07:16 other posts  ⤴
Yeah, I figured guys that are actually gay wouldn't go for that no matter how much they wanted a blowjob. Since it was posted, I've asked five gay guys, and none of them would do it. Convenience isn't enough to change that.
By MM_DD [Ignore] 21,Apr,17 22:18 other posts 
I can believe that. I can't imagine most of my other gay friends would go for it either, although there are a few that might be questionable. But again, the issue is supply and demand. It's no s e c r e t that most gay men love to give blowjobs, and I would venture to say that most straight men love to receive blowjobs. It's understandable that given that dynamic, boundaries are bound to be crossed, regardless of sexual orientations.
By RealTitsLover [Ignore] 22,Apr,17 02:38 other posts 
I don't know about other people, but I'm guessing I'm not the only one who isn't willing to settle for sex or anything sexual with someone they're not attracted to. I can go years without sex and never once find the thought of that appealing. So being affected by supply and demand isn't something that's bound to happen. It depends on the person. The fact that saying you're straight isn't always good enough for another guy to take a hint makes me think the word's losing its meaning.

I don't think it should be a surprise to any "straight" guy that another straight guy doesn't want a dude sucking their cock. I won't use the member's name, but despite politely asking guys not to PM me on my page, I just had this conversation with a member whose description says straight, interested in women...

Straight: you should visit here,i fucked many,mostly get head
Straight:
Me: I don't like guys.
Straight: i'm talking about women
Straight: i'm into women lol
Straight: but after we fuck many ladys u will love me helping them milk you long dick
Me: nope, I'm not into that. I can't even stay hard with a guy in the room, I've tried for some very hot girls, didn't work. Sorry.
Straight: np
Straight: would u want my sucking your cock better than a girl can?
Me: I don't care about the sensation if I'm not turned on. And that's not possible.
Straight: u want me milkin u,i'll make u love it to much
Straight:
Me: Trust me. I'll never be interested. Don't make me blacklist you.
Straight: bye bitch
Straight: cry baby
By MM_DD [Ignore] 22,Apr,17 11:25 other posts 
No, you're definitely not the only one. I would venture that most people don't settle for sex with a person they're not attracted to. I waited 26 years to have sex and have only been sexual with men. Married to my husband now for almost 22 years and have only been sexual with him. I can't imagine doing anything sexual with a woman. The whole idea feels unnatural to me. Like you but in reverse, I don't think I could even stay hard with a woman in the room, if I were into the group thing (which I'm not). But that's you and me and our boundaries, which are pretty—dare I say—black and white. Others may dip into that gray area for various reasons. That's what I mean when I say it's unrealistic to apply such a strict code to other people's sexuality. You've got to give them some flexibility without immediately labeling them as bisexual.

That being said, yes, there are quite a lot of truly bisexual guys on here—and out there—who insist on self-identifying as gay or straight, but it's pretty clear when you talk with them that they're bi. Your "straight" member (whom I hope you blacklisted because he's clearly a jerk) kind of reminds me of a "gay" guy who messaged me a few years ago whom I quickly blocked. Here's a sampling of our conversation:

Gay: If I were straight, I could be a millionaire as a baby making machine. Not bragging, but I am seriously potent. Thank God I don't fuck women without condoms a lot!
Me: So you do actually fuck women?
Gay: Yeah. I'm gay, don't really consider myself bi, but yes, I do. I got one coming over tonight, but I'm just eating her out. It's more like a fetish for me. Hard to explain. I prefer men, but making a woman cum makes me so fucking hard and cum myself.
Me: You're bi but in denial about it. If you were gay, you wouldn't get nearly that excited having sex with women.
Gay: But I really do prefer men, especially for relationships.
Me: Many bisexuals only prefer one gender for relationships. So what do you tell the women you hook up with?
Gay: I tell them I am gay. I pick up a lot of women at gay bars. I always exceed expectations!
Me: OK, that's it. You're full of shit. We're done.
Gay: What?
[blocked]
By RealTitsLover [Ignore] 15,Apr,17 18:59 other posts  ⤴
I wouldn't get one myself, but don't they sell things now that feel just like a blowjob? With no need for other guys in the room? I mean... I can see the appeal of the other guy if you're bi, but these guys all say they're straight.
By #532686 15,Apr,17 19:59
I mentioned that in a different reply. To my knowledge, there is nothing that genuinely comes close to a BJ. People have worked on it for forever because there would be billions to be made, but so far, there is nothing that even comes close. I've heard of some enormous, incredibly expensive contraption that's pretty good, but I've never actually seen it. The best I've ever seen is basically a Fleshlight with some motorized rollers inside and a vibrator. I don;'t even think it was heated. I guess it's OK, but it isn't even in the running. I mean, even with humans, with all the complexity that comprises the human mouth, there's still a HUGE skill factor involved. One BJ isn't as good as the next, and a synthetic version would not only have to be mechanically super complex, it would have to also incorporate some kind of AI component so that it could recognize and respond to various feedback cues.

As to people like me who do get DL BJs and still maintain that we're straight, I've never understood the confusion in the matter. If I was able to buy the device you mentioned, would I then be considered at least a little robosexual? Or would I just be utilizing a convenient source of pleasure?
By MM_DD [Ignore] 16,Apr,17 22:35 other posts 
I love to use massagers to get off. The orgasm is incredible. So I guess that would make me a robo-homo!
By spermkiss [Ignore] 20,Apr,17 16:18 other posts  ⤴
Hey, whatever gets your nut off is just fine, be it your own hand, a vibrator, or a mouth.

I've used all three (plus pussies and assholes, but not **** [gotta draw the line somewhere]), and I'll say a mouth is best. Whether I'm the sucker or the suckee there is something special about the human contact between a man and his cocksucker.

Man, you really started something with this topic as it really has legs. The site administrator even weighed in with the very first comment wondering what kind of interest it would generate. Well, it certainly has generated a lot. The comments keep on coming.
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By spermkiss [Ignore] 16,Apr,17 12:07 other posts  ⤴
Don't say that. Don't even think it!

Cocksuckers have been sucking off straight men for millennia, since the dawn of mankind. And it's a nice arrangement. The straight man gets the oral sex he craves and a satisfying orgasmic climax and the cocksucker gets the pleasure of bringing him to that climax and is rewarded with a nice load of sperm. Everyone is happy.

But every now and then some spoil sport like you comes along and says that any man who lets another man anywhere near his dick isn't really straight. And this temporarily spoils things by scaring off the straight men. Fortunately, they eventually come back.


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