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For most of us that does take some courage to do, i sure don't do that easily!
Out of curiosity - how does your usual conversation with a woman you just met and want to have sex with go on? I doubt it's just "Hello, I want to fuck you", there should be some more delicate scheme of approach.
It baffles me!
To this day, I don't know why I didn't do this. I was terrible at seduction. Rejection isn't fatal.
I have found that asking doesn't work on my wife.
I don't have that kind of confidence to walk up to someone and ask for a fuck
I think you have to not care that a lot of women will dislike you. But some will want to fuck. As a horny guy, you just want to fuck them. Not yet to know them, or gain there respect.
The guy I knew almost never fucked the same woman again. Maybe at night, through the night, and in the morning, but not afterwords. I am not sure he even knew their names.
But he fucked a lot of women.
I can't ask a woman to go and fuck with me not exactly because I'm afraid to be rejected, it's much more that I'm not sure I really want to fuck her. What if I don't like something about her when she gets nude? What if I don't like her smell? Sometimes I have problems with erection when fucking unfamiliar woman even if I like her. It's not an erectile disfunction, it was always like that even when I was young and could fuck 6 times per day. And you can't exactly invite a woman to fuck if you are not sure you can fuck her. I think it would be insulting to the women if you do this and then can't. And even if you ask with an attitude like that, they feel you are not sure and say no. So, you have to at least sound confident.
Much later, I did worry about not being able to fuck them for whatever reason. And I passed on some opportunities for the reasons you suggest. It would be very embarrassing to ask them to fuck, get naked, and not be able to get hard enough to shove it in them. As you worry about this, it gets worse.
And opportunities get farther apart as you get older. A 30 year old guy can probably get away with asking a 20 year old to fuck. A 70 year old guy will probably be arrested for suggesting it to a 40 year old woman, and a 60 year old woman will probably buy him with her cane.
People think they are young ,goodlooking; ofcourse it's easy for them, but it's not!
It's also about the way they feel and think
I also wonder what's going to happen once we get naked, or when someone asks to do something i've never done before
Being attracked to someone doesn't always help as fear of not being able to perform will make it worse.
No wonder so many people are getting less sex than they would like to!
It's all about getting your cock into some cunt. Not long term relationships.
I don't know that there is a non crude way to ask if the want to fuck. He never beat around the bush. He just ask "would you like to come up to my place and fuck?" That way there was no being clever or trying to be suductive. They already agreed to fuck. Just do it. Some night repeatedly.
I am with you. To much of a coward. I could get them to come up to my place but then had to try and convince them to fuck without asking. If I could do it over, I would just ask.
I am sure that a lot of women went away thinking I was weird or neutered or something.
Daddy's having fun?
Orgie in the gym?
Island of men?
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I was familiar with a small ring of swingers, most of them were ordinary-looking at best, I would not look at any of them twice on the street, but they liked sex and were ok with fucking each other, so they had plenty of orgies and gradually extended their circle over years finding more people like them.
Also, I had a friend who preferred to fuck below average girls because as he said they fucked best. Sometimes he had to bring girls into his home after dark because he was ashamed neighbors could see him with them otherwise, so ugly they were. He was average himself. But he fucked a whole lot of them. Could get a new girl any day. I think it was over a hundred different girls in all the years.
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