I' like to address a couple of points if I may. First of all "taboo turnz me on". But of course it does. What is forbidden, i. e. taboo, turns EVERYONE on.

Now about being dominant and the converse, being submissive. I never feel either dominant or submissive whether I'm the cocksucker or the man being sucked, mostly because I just don't think in those terms. When two men engage in cocksucking they are doing it for their mutual pleasure. The man being sucked gets oral service and a satisfying orgasmic experience. The cocksucker gets the excitement, pleasure, satisfaction and feeling of accomplishment of knowing he has brought another man to climax. And he gets a load of sperm. It's truly a win/win situation. Each man gets something he likes.

If you want to bring dominance and submission into the picture, however, one could easily argue that the cocksucker is dominant. After all, he's in control of the situation. He controls how much stimulation he gives to the other man's penis. And most importantly he controls when the man reaches his climax, or even IF he reaches climax. He could bring him to the brink and then stop, leaving him frustrated.

An oral coupling between two men is really quite lovely and should be fully enjoyed by both parties.

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