When I was younger, wilder and single I loved to go to the gay bath house and sit on the floor of the steam room near the door and suck the dick of every man who came in. To have had fifty or sixty dicks in my mouth in an hour was fun.
Or go to a park where guys hook up and suck off twelve men and eat their sperm in one evening was really satisfying.
Or have sex on the nude beach with dozens of people around watching was exciting.
The only thing I never did and wish I had was do porn. The idea that anyone in the world would be able to see me fucking and sucking has enormous appeal. I didn't because of employment and family considerations. Now I'm retired and my close family members have passed away, but I'm too old and my husband wouldn't approve.
It's often said that we regret more the things we wanted to do but didn't, than the things we did do. Don't struggle to say no, just say yes. You've got the physique and the cock for it, so do it.
A common misconception about porn performers is that they have hit bottom and are desperate. The truth is that most have jobs outside the skin business, some even have well paying jobs.
The overwhelming majority of women in porn and virtually all men in porn are doing it because THEY WANT TO DO IT. One porn producer commented that many of his performers would be willing to do it for free, just for the fun of doing it. For porn performers, the pleasure and satisfaction of putting their bodies and their sex on public display is enormous. Haven't you gotten pleasure from putting yourself on this site?
Thank you for posting that!! IS there a newspaper reference, or something in print? I mean, I have read your posts for a few years, and I'm not at all gay, but I want to meet you, as the wise, sexual sage, Master.
Not everyone will accept your word, and my ****'s wife is a total 'Hater' of all kinds of things, in any way 'sexual' and if I could say that there was this paper published, or newspaper article, saying that people in porn CHOOSE it, and WANT to do it, and aren't 'damaged' or '****' ****, I would love to show it to her!!
I've been reading your posts, and I've reconsidered what I was taught, and tried some new things, and I know I'm not gay, but I wouldn't say no, with the right guy, at the right time, just to see if I am missing something!!
First of all, thank you for the kind words. "I have read your posts for years...", "...the wise, sexual sage, Master." I blush.
On to your question. No, there is no one reference I can give you to back up what I said about porn performers. But the idea that most (indeed, virtually all) are doing it because they want to is a conclusion I have drawn from years of observation. So what have I observed?
One obvious item is the popularity of this very site and it's s-I-s-t-e-r site "Show Your Cunt". The enormous number of genitalia on display shows pretty conclusively that there are a LOT of people out there who really like putting their private parts on display. Looking around elsewhere on the internet it would appear that posting nude photos often even jack-off videos has become a rite of passage for young men. For young gay men, performing in a full on hard core sex video is almost de rigueur.
Another is interviews of porn performers I have read in magazines or on the internet or seen in videos on the internet. Of course, some of them could be made up and fake, but generally they ring true. One particularly sticks in my mind about a man who went to his first gay porn shoot (as a performer). He went because porn was something he wanted to do, but he was expecting that everyone else there would be down on his luck and desperate. He found that the others ranged from high school drop-outs of PhDs and everything in between. But the two things they had in common were that they all had other jobs and they all were eager to take off their clothes and have sex with other men in front of a camera.
About the porn producer who remarked that many of his performers would even be willing to work for free, I do not remember who he was or where I read it, but again, this sure does ring true. People like to have sex in front of a camera. a LOT of people.
Finally, about trying to convince the lady (???) in question, don't bother. You never will. She sounds like the kind of person who would say "This is what I think, so don't try to confuse me with the facts." When people like that run into facts that dispute what they think, they simply disregard the facts rather than change their mind.
Thanks for your response, and I never thought I could EVER convince her, and I try to avoid the topic, and others, as she is so opinionated!!
Even when I do have research, published papers, and references to support some issues, she ignores them and continues to argue her 'rhetoric', like a fundamentalist!!
In college, I knew several women that were 'dancers' and they did it because they had a ****, and a deadbeat dad that didn't care! How can you say 'no' to a job that pays a couple hundred dollars for a few hours of semi-degrading work?
They are REALLY in control, and guys go in with a wallet full of cash, and leave, broke!! Who is really in 'power' in that 'relationship'??
Sex is a basic drive, and porn pays, especially the ladies!! She can even be kind of 'chubby' or 'nerdy' and there is a niche market, online, for that!
How can you not ADORE the First Amendment, that allows every fantasy to be expressed, online??
"They are REALLY in control, and guys go in with a wallet full of cash, and leave broke!! Who is really in 'power' in that 'relationship'??" Right on!
On a (somewhat) related topic macho straight guys sometimes like to demean gay cocksuckers as weak and powerless, but think about it. The man is putting his favorite part of his body in the cocksucker's mouth, a mouth that has teeth that could inflict a very serious wound. And the cocksucker controls when (and IF!) the man will climax. He could bring him close and then stop, leaving him VERY frustrated and begging for orgasmic release. When I kneel before a man to suck him off I feel very much in control.
To JKMS87, I'm not certain if I suggested this in the forum or if I suggested via a PM to spermkiss, I think he should have his own thread and title it; JUST ASK SPERMKISS.
He has a wealth of knowledge an abundance of life experience and he's never judgmental! Who better to provide to the answers to provocative questions!?
Definitely!! He is like a 'Jedi Master' for so many things, 'sexual'!! He answers so many questions, issues, problems for gay or straight, and has been right on, with everything he has told me over the last few years!!
He never 'pusses out' on ANY question, and doesn't sugar coat the answer; he just tells it like it is, and you think, oh, yeah, I didn't think about it (whatever your question was) THAT way!!
Keep posting, like you have, but you should have your own Thread, at least!
You are both far too kind. But I don't know everything and a lot of what I do know I picked up from other members on this site. I've said it numerous times before, but it bears repeating: One of the most rewarding parts of this site is the things we members learn from each other.
You know that's a very good point you made. It brought to mind that ince in a yoga class while I was alone with this very beautiful instructor. She asked what I needed or what problem did I have. I told her I'm sexually repressed for one so she made me do some sacral work. Then she made me stand and I was pretty hard then had me lay on a bolster on my back cock in the air. She then watched me as I meditated. After we stopped she asked how I felt and I said very very horny but relaxed. She said good that's what that's supposed to do. I had to rush home to rub one out. It really turned me on beyond belief oddly. Just having a beautiful woman just staring at my cock while shes directing my energy around. It wasnt sexual but felt so erotic and interesting. I told her I hope you dont mind I had an erection I'm sorry I got that and she said I'm not sorry you got it did you enjoy it. I said oh I enjoyed it alot possibly too much,she smiled and said well I'm not sorry at all you got it dont be ashamed or think anything is wrong with it,those exercises are designed to boost your erections so it wasnt only that your horny. I thought you could use that to calm down after you get home.
Concerning erections in public or semi-public places, the best advice of all is don't be embarrassed or ashamed if they happen. This shame and embarrassment can lead to impotence later in life. When one gets to be my age, one realizes that there are a lot of things in life that are worse than having an erection. One of them is not having an erection. It's one of the cruel ironies of life that we men spend the first forty years of our lives trying to keep our dicks soft and the rest of our lives trying to get them hard. So what should a man do if he gets an erection in public? Don't do anything, but keep on doing whatever he'd be doing if he didn't have an erection. He should neither flaunt it nor attempt to hide it. Odds are everyone will pretend not to notice.
Getting caught spying on a gay orgy and being tied up and forced fucked by all 15 males. Forced to suck all the cocks and swallow sperm from each then being fucked hard in the pussy until they all leave a load inside me.
My fantasy would be to be naked at a hen party tied down so I cant resist and have like ten ladies all have a turn at my cock for whatever they want to do within reason. I just want to lay there and see how dirty they get.
I've had a lot of fantasies and being a swinger for years have lived almost all of them. Right now the only one that I still have is to find a very large, big titted black woman that really is no beauty to use as my personal cum dump. Maybe even share her with a few of my friends... I just have this desire to be mounted on top of a black BBW and plowing her pussy or mouth...
My hands and legs tied in a room filled with men and women and I am sold as a sex slave.
The highest bidder gets first pick and he or she can do anything with me what he or she wants.
What the person is doing to me I will leave that to your imagination.
The rest of the group is waiting and enjoying the show.
After he or she is done with me the bidding starts again and I am sold again.
It goes on and on until the room is cleared.
I am walking outside in my sleazy lingerie and high heels and a group jumps at me.
Because I am only wearing lingerie they will think I am a slut and hold me down.
They push me on the ground and each person is holding my hands and legs very tight.
I don't want them because they smell like cigarettes and beer.
My legs are spread wide open, they are too strong for me.
One person rips open my panties and fucks me.
After he is done they roulate, the person who fucked me is holding me tight while it's the other's turn.
I get totally ravaged.
It's just a fantasy guys and girls, don't take it literally.
And remember: always make sure sex is mutual and you have consent.
Going magically back in time, to be 13 again, exploring my newly discovered sexuality with the same three similar-age neighborhood boys I fooled around with.
love to be walking past a car, then seeing a really big cock, I mean 8 plus inside and the driver is jerking, and I go and give him a head to finish it off for him..
Getting passed around by a group of 20+ guys with massive cocks, each fucking me brutally in different positions. Cocks on my mouth, 2 in my ass and one in each hand. Getting slapped and hit as they pass me around while I cry and beg for them to stop.
Te get walked around naked, like a dog at a dog leash, through my home town. In the middle of the market place I have to kneel at a huge platform and a man with his great Dane comes up to the platform and lets the dog mount me. All People from my town can see it and can after that do anything with me what they want. Hours later I have to walk home alone - as dirty and naked as I am.
Mine would be to have at least 5 women on their hands and knees in front of me at my knee height, heads down and asses up. I would fuck each one of their ass holes in turn. I would start with number 1, pushing my well lubed cock deep down into her arse hole and fuck her for couple of minutes. Then I would go round to the front of the 2nd woman and she would suck my cock, tasting the last womans ass on my cock and sucking it well to get it wet for the next womans ass hole and so on
in britain, there are organized bukkake parties, and other sex parties, which can be found on the internet, e.g. in xxxbritain dot com
many of them are free because it's organized fun between similarly-minded adults. perhaps one just pays for the organization of the event, drinks, etc.
When I was younger, wilder and single I loved to go to the gay bath house and sit on the floor of the steam room near the door and suck the dick of every man who came in. To have had fifty or sixty dicks in my mouth in an hour was fun.
Or go to a park where guys hook up and suck off twelve men and eat their sperm in one evening was really satisfying.
Or have sex on the nude beach with dozens of people around watching was exciting.
The only thing I never did and wish I had was do porn. The idea that anyone in the world would be able to see me fucking and sucking has enormous appeal. I didn't because of employment and family considerations. Now I'm retired and my close family members have passed away, but I'm too old and my husband wouldn't approve.
That said if a direct offer came up without me having to do any legwork I'd struggle to say no
A common misconception about porn performers is that they have hit bottom and are desperate. The truth is that most have jobs outside the skin business, some even have well paying jobs.
The overwhelming majority of women in porn and virtually all men in porn are doing it because THEY WANT TO DO IT. One porn producer commented that many of his performers would be willing to do it for free, just for the fun of doing it. For porn performers, the pleasure and satisfaction of putting their bodies and their sex on public display is enormous. Haven't you gotten pleasure from putting yourself on this site?
Not everyone will accept your word, and my ****'s wife is a total 'Hater' of all kinds of things, in any way 'sexual' and if I could say that there was this paper published, or newspaper article, saying that people in porn CHOOSE it, and WANT to do it, and aren't 'damaged' or '****' ****, I would love to show it to her!!
I've been reading your posts, and I've reconsidered what I was taught, and tried some new things, and I know I'm not gay, but I wouldn't say no, with the right guy, at the right time, just to see if I am missing something!!
On to your question. No, there is no one reference I can give you to back up what I said about porn performers. But the idea that most (indeed, virtually all) are doing it because they want to is a conclusion I have drawn from years of observation. So what have I observed?
One obvious item is the popularity of this very site and it's s-I-s-t-e-r site "Show Your Cunt". The enormous number of genitalia on display shows pretty conclusively that there are a LOT of people out there who really like putting their private parts on display. Looking around elsewhere on the internet it would appear that posting nude photos often even jack-off videos has become a rite of passage for young men. For young gay men, performing in a full on hard core sex video is almost de rigueur.
Another is interviews of porn performers I have read in magazines or on the internet or seen in videos on the internet. Of course, some of them could be made up and fake, but generally they ring true. One particularly sticks in my mind about a man who went to his first gay porn shoot (as a performer). He went because porn was something he wanted to do, but he was expecting that everyone else there would be down on his luck and desperate. He found that the others ranged from high school drop-outs of PhDs and everything in between. But the two things they had in common were that they all had other jobs and they all were eager to take off their clothes and have sex with other men in front of a camera.
About the porn producer who remarked that many of his performers would even be willing to work for free, I do not remember who he was or where I read it, but again, this sure does ring true. People like to have sex in front of a camera. a LOT of people.
Finally, about trying to convince the lady (???) in question, don't bother. You never will. She sounds like the kind of person who would say "This is what I think, so don't try to confuse me with the facts." When people like that run into facts that dispute what they think, they simply disregard the facts rather than change their mind.
Even when I do have research, published papers, and references to support some issues, she ignores them and continues to argue her 'rhetoric', like a fundamentalist!!
In college, I knew several women that were 'dancers' and they did it because they had a ****, and a deadbeat dad that didn't care! How can you say 'no' to a job that pays a couple hundred dollars for a few hours of semi-degrading work?
They are REALLY in control, and guys go in with a wallet full of cash, and leave, broke!! Who is really in 'power' in that 'relationship'??
Sex is a basic drive, and porn pays, especially the ladies!! She can even be kind of 'chubby' or 'nerdy' and there is a niche market, online, for that!
How can you not ADORE the First Amendment, that allows every fantasy to be expressed, online??
On a (somewhat) related topic macho straight guys sometimes like to demean gay cocksuckers as weak and powerless, but think about it. The man is putting his favorite part of his body in the cocksucker's mouth, a mouth that has teeth that could inflict a very serious wound. And the cocksucker controls when (and IF!) the man will climax. He could bring him close and then stop, leaving him VERY frustrated and begging for orgasmic release. When I kneel before a man to suck him off I feel very much in control.
He has a wealth of knowledge an abundance of life experience and he's never judgmental! Who better to provide to the answers to provocative questions!?
He never 'pusses out' on ANY question, and doesn't sugar coat the answer; he just tells it like it is, and you think, oh, yeah, I didn't think about it (whatever your question was) THAT way!!
Keep posting, like you have, but you should have your own Thread, at least!
The highest bidder gets first pick and he or she can do anything with me what he or she wants.
What the person is doing to me I will leave that to your imagination.
The rest of the group is waiting and enjoying the show.
After he or she is done with me the bidding starts again and I am sold again.
It goes on and on until the room is cleared.
I am walking outside in my sleazy lingerie and high heels and a group jumps at me.
Because I am only wearing lingerie they will think I am a slut and hold me down.
They push me on the ground and each person is holding my hands and legs very tight.
I don't want them because they smell like cigarettes and beer.
My legs are spread wide open, they are too strong for me.
One person rips open my panties and fucks me.
After he is done they roulate, the person who fucked me is holding me tight while it's the other's turn.
I get totally ravaged.
It's just a fantasy guys and girls, don't take it literally.
And remember: always make sure sex is mutual and you have consent.
We just don't talk about it.
But remember: It's just a fantasy, never ever do it in real life.
Not "dirty", but definitely taboo.
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To be tied down and forced to fuck 10 women in a row.
By the way, I prefer "most desirable" to "dirtiest"
many of them are free because it's organized fun between similarly-minded adults. perhaps one just pays for the organization of the event, drinks, etc.
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