Many younger (and not so younger) men suffer from too quick climax and there is no doubt that it can be a relationship breaker IF both partners allow it to be.


If you tend to be too quick on the trigger then you need to train yourself to hold off longer by 'edging',...ie., practice hovering on the brink of ejaculation so that you get used to the feelings and learn to control it.


The books of sexologist Dr Barbara Keesling are excellent for teaching techniques of learning about your arousal cycle and controlling it.


However, while you are learning control, don't allow PE to spoil your sex life by allowing for your condition,......try ejaculating BEFORE you join your partner so that you are not inclined to have such a 'hair trigger' reaction to the pleasure and excitement.


Lastly, if you DO shoot unexpectedly when with your partner, don't let it end the session, just tranfer all of your attention to her/him and concentrate on giving as much pleasure as you can with hands, lips and fingers etc. The partner will greatly enjoy yoru efforts and you will quite quickly get into the moment with a fresh erection.