Several people have asked me to post photos of my dick. My usual reply was "who wants to see a shriveled-up 60 year old dick?" Or I may have directed them to the Discussion Forum topic "PISSING AT URINALS" where the avatar for toyboy is all that is left of my photos that I once took with a Polaroid camera 25 years and scanned them and posted them when I was here before.
My good friend SPERMKISS has offered me some encouraging words on many topics and concerns in all of my time here, before as toyboy and now as tb1. I asked him for some words of encouragement and boy oh boy, did he deliver, big-time. Thank you so much my friend. I want to share his thoughts with you all and and I have his permission to quote from his private email to me:
"You need some encouragement so here it is. I don't have any photos either (except for the one of the Inca temple) and I've been here longer than you. I am sometimes asked, usually by new members, why I have no photos and I tell them it's because my husband doesn't want me to post them and if they want further elaboration on that, see my Blog. If you haven't already read my postings on my Blog, please do so. Old timers here know why I have no photos and it generally doesn't bother them. Indeed, I've gotten a lot of positive response from other members. They can appreciate that I am contributing my mind and not my body. The positive feedback I have gotten from my comments on the Forum and from my critiques of members' photos is truly amazing. A few (very few) have gotten kind of snotty with me and those I simply ignore. Two I had to ban from my page and both are now gone. Sometimes I also play the financial card. This is kind of tacky and I dislike doing it, but sometimes I do. Notice the little icon next to my name. That means I am paying a small monthly fee for my membership. Among other perquisites that gives me freedom from advertising. If someone gets really nasty I point out that the advertisers and paying members (like me) are paying that person's way. He may thank us whenever
he's ready. Perhaps I shouldn't have even brought this up with you and I hope you're not offended. I don't mind paying your way. When this financial issue came up on the Forum, JohnS in Australia commented that he did not have a credit card or the resources to be a paying member. Probably you cannot because you do not want your wife to see a SYD charge on your credit card statement. I told JohnS that he may not be a "paying" member, but he was definitely a "contributing" member. While I often did not agree with his comments, they were valuable and thought provoking. I feel the same way about you. Think about it, you started the legendary Discussion Forum topic "Pissing at Urinals", the most enduring Forum topic in the history of SYD. That alone makes you a valuable, contributing member. So buck up and feel good about yourself. You're a good guy."

So there you have it, no pics. Please refer to my avatar posted with the Discussion Forum topic "PISSING AT URINALS" for a photo of what my dick looked like 25 years ago.