Getting older can be hard no pun intended on a couples sex life. She can loose her interest and he can loos his erection but not his ejaculation too early. But if they both can maintain their interest in pleasing each other it can still be a very sexually pleasurable time.

The guy certainly can still eat pussy for possibly a longer time than in his youth.

The woman can surely suck his cock and swallow his cum for years and years if she wants too!

You both can work at spending time pleasing each other. It only takes the want to in your head. Most guys get scared if their cock will not get hard and go running to the little blue pill for help. That may or may not work. But many can still get that great feeling of the cum if their cock is stimulated correctly. It may take more time or maybe a firmer stroke. If the woman has been helped to get hersdelf off first she may be more interested in helping him there as well.

If they have not used them b4 the couple should investigate sex toys and vibes to help please her.. Lots of thing available to assist a woman to have orgasms. Maybe even try some things she has never done b4 in the bedroom.

A mans cock is a funny thing. It can loose ability to get hard enough to fuck her but that does not mean it will not feel good if stroked or sucked long and firm. The balls can now play more of a role in the couples play time. He or her can massage them or squeeze them or even tug on them. Each guy will react different to each of these things. Some guys will even just love to have their balls played with light or hard for that evening. It can be strangely pleasurable to each guy.

If the woman likes to suck cock then this can become the best tome of his life. Some guys even with sort of limp cocks can learn to love her to suck and play with his cock for a long time to just give his tool that wonderful feeling. He does not always need to shoot a load to feel fulfilled in bed as he gets older. But if she works on sucking his cock with lots of light and strong stokes and other techniques she can make him wiggle with pleasure for ny length of time she wants. This is just like when they were young but at a mature age the sensations can last a lot longer and become much more intense with out ever shooting his load. After all sex is just not about that load.

Basically if a couple wants to continue to have sex longer into their life they need to practice pleasing each other as often as possible. That keeps the mechanisms working that sends the pleasure signals to the brain. That then makes the body to want more of those feelings and helps you when you do it again to get those feelings to intensify!

Just try and have sex as often as you can. Even when each does not feel so much like doing it. Think of it as pleasing your partner so they will want to please you next time!!!

More to come later.....