We were in the swingers LifeStyle for many years! So I have had a lot of BJs over a long period of time. But I discovered that there really are some BJs much better than others.

There have been 4 people that actually gave me the best! My wife was the 1st. She and I had no experiences at all until we got together. We taught each other everything about everything. No internet and just the beginnings of porn back then. Not that porn is the place to learn anything about real sex but that is for another blog! The next was a very nice heavy set gal we met at a sex convention. She was completely new to sharing her sexy fun times with anyone but a current lover. The 3rd was the wife of a sort of well know porn star! The last was mu one and only cock sucking best friend. He and I were learning and teaching each other the fun of men sucking men for the fun of it!

My wife was just into pleasing me like I tried to please her and we did it sort of often so she got lots of practice. We read anything we could find on eating each other for fun. She tried out many techniques we found and perfected each. She got so many that she could not do them all each time she gave me oral sex. The thing was that we both noticed that she was as pleased afterwards as I was. She tried had and soft methods. She tried using teeth and pulling my balls. We actually tried any method we ever read or heard about. So were she kept them in her list of good things and we did not keep a few that either hurt or just were not so fun for either of us. I thought I was in heaven most of the time. She got so good she used to tell others she could get me up and keep me there for 45-60 minutes minimum any time she wanted to. And that was the key. She just loved the things she got from sucking my dick. The power of when she let me cum and the ease with which could keep me on the edge and begging for release. She just loved the feelings she got from doing it. Then we started in with swinging. She like most other ladies in the Lifestyle gave lots of BJs to guy that told her how good she was. She got guy that claimed to not cum from a BJ to blow their load in her mouth. She was so good she began to teach BJ classes at sex conventions. Again I was in heaven!

Then we met this very lovely heavy set gal at a convention at lunch. She told us she had never had sex with anyone she was not in a relationship with and even then she had only done it with about 3-4 guy ever. She did say she always like to suck cock for some reason. She came home for the night with us and we had fun sey time together. She was happy to have some nice calm folks to help her try this new life out. After she and the wife both had a couple of orgasms she asked if she could suck my dick. I certainly said go ahead and that I loved BJs alot. She said she was a bit shy about doing it to a stranger. I told her I would just lay there and let her play how ever she wanted to. She got down to doing it slowly. She started slow and it was ok for sure. My wife got up and left figuring it would not take long. She was way wrong. This gal began to suckle my cock like it was the best candy she had ever had and wanted much more. With out a lot of details she just went for my cock fast, slow, hard, soft. She licked it up and down. She used everything I had ever thought of to add more and more pleasure to my cock. She then grabbed my balls and did the same with them. She played with them soft and hard. She tugged on them easy and very firm. She pressed then together and squeezed them very hard. She took hints from me at every step.If I indicated some thing was good she would do it again in a few minutes. If I made it clear that was too hard she changed up and only did it softer. After a bit I gave her a strong blast of cum in her mouth even without asking 1st but she swallowed like a champ! She used my cock like a straw and worked to get every drop from my balls. When I thought I was done she let my cock out of her mouth only long enough to ask if she could keep playing for a while. She was loving just having a cock in her mouth. I lasted only a bit longer until the super sensitivity was too much and I had to get her to stop. She was sort of disappointed she was made to remove my cock from her mouth.

She had been loving it in her mouth for sure. Later that night the wife was sleepy and went to bed but she asked to suck me again. Told her I was not sure I would shoot another load but if she wanted to play she could o for it.

She dove at my cock and went to work. Again she did every type of mouth technique to add pleasure to my tool. Do not know how long she played but she actually got me to shoot 2 times b4 I made her stop. That was a first for me! Unfortunately she lived in the midwest and we never saw her again. She was amazing and a natural and BJs.

The next was the wife of a minor porn star. We met her naked across the belly of another nice gal someone was fucking on the same bed. Small talk led to me saying so many gals did BJs just because they assume guys want one. That they did it well but only sort of fast to get the guy off so they would pleasure the woman again. My new friend told me there were some gals that did BJs for their own pleasure. That they got lots from sucking cock.

Maybe not an orgasm but man got feelings close to it and lots of head pleasure watching a guy writhe under their mouth workings. She asked if I would like one. I told her it was my favorite way to cum. We moved to a more open spot and she went to work. Again she had mad skills at this and she had something I was not used to. She was used to sucking porn stars and thus had developed a lot of stamina. Leaving out all of the pleasureable details, she worked my cock up and down from almost dead soft to hard as a rock many times. She was a master at getting me to the edge and then **** it back down over and over again. I was in heaven for sure but also getting almost sore from her work. She yanked on my balls like she did her husband quite a few times. She would add some pain then quickly play the pleasure card on my cock so I did not care about the small pain in my balls. No idea how long she worked my wife said it was at least 45 minutes this time. With out even noticing anything I blasted my load into her throat. She also kept up the sucking of my cock to get every drop. I started to relax and my cock started to go limp. It was super sensitive again and I said for her to stop. She just pushed me down by my chest and said she was not done yet she wanted a second load. I told her almost never have bee able to do that. She told me to just lay there and enjoy her work. I did. At first it was a bit painful but slowly she used her multiple techniques to get my cock very hard again and just kept working on me. My wife said it was at least almost an our but I lost my second load deep in her throat finally. She still worked my cock as if it was a straw and she wanted that last bit of her favorite milk shake at the bottom of the glass. I did not recall most of her work but later my cock was sore and my balls ached for a day or two afterwards. When she finally stopped she was softly sucking my cock like it was her favorite candy and just allowed me to slowly slip out. I could not talk. She gave my wife a kiss on the cheek and got dressed and left. Never saw her again either!

My most current oral sex fun has been with an old friend. He and I were put together by a good lady friend that we each had shared a desire to understand what ladies got from sucking so many cocks. Long story but he was at my place having sex with my wife. We all just laid back and rested for awhile. He mentioned the conversation about our good friend and asked if I real wanted to try something. I said yes and my wife said ok. He reached over and caressed my cock. Then slowly he rolled over and layed across my wife and slipped my cock in his mout. He tried his best to do a good job of sucking my already drained dock and balls. He kept sucking as he attempted to do different techniques on me. My tool began to respond to his playful work. In a few minutes I lost my control and blasted into his mouth. He work quickly to swallow my load. I was surprised for sure about being able to cum at all but the kinky thought of my male friend sucking and drinking from my cock was just too exciting I guess. In the morning before he drove home he asked if I wanted another BJ. I only thought about it for a second and got naked and reached for his tool as well. We did a decent 69 and drank each other cum for the first time together. Not my fav sex method but it was exciting and so much fun. For the next few years he would come to town and we 3 would have sex. We always wanted to pleasure my wife a few time before we did anything at all. Next we would suck each others cock and try out new techniques. We each just wanted to feel what it was like to please a man's cock and rcv the same back. We each had no other cock to practice on at all so we did what we could when he came to town. He was getting very good at it for sure. Not sure if I was ever as good as he was ut I was having fun. Unfortunately he passed away in his **** a while back! I miss him and his nice cok for sure.

The real reason for telling this long story was that guys know that any BJ is good! But few get to find those people that love to suck and play with a cok just for the fun and pleasure of doing it. In my great experience I have been
lucky to find out that the best BJ always comes from a person that wants to please your cock not just does it because they think you want a BJ (which we do). Those people that just love to play with a cock hard or soft cum or
no cum because they like one in their mouth to enjoy them selves give the best BJs in the world. That person may be a gal or a gay/bi guy but it does not matter if they actually want to do it for their own happiness and you gt to go along for that ride!