As you know I like to get my dick sucked on the DL by men. They're better at it, women are complicated, blah, blah, blah. Men are easier to hookup, no strings, too. Except when they're not.

If you're just randomly hitting up guys in town that maybe did you once a year ago, it can be hard to arrange. And if you find them off CL or another site, you never know quite what you're going to get. That's why it's really, really nice to have a regular.

A regular is a guy who sucks well and who can be relied upon to give you some service on any given weekend. Someone who kind of expects to hear from you every week or two. On top of being highly available, a regular also gets really good at sucking your particular cock. You like deepthroating? He'll do it. You like ball sucking? He's got you covered. And he knows from experience just how you like it all done.

Also, with a regular you feel more comfortable doing some reciprocation if he wants any. I knew one guy for a couple of years. Sucked like he was starving. And all he really wanted in return was a 30 second stroke job after he swallowed my sperm. So I gave it to him. Why not?

Final note. What made me think of this topic is that I haven't had a regular in quite some time. (Aside from my hand job guy, but that's another story.) But I met a guy a month back. Rando off CL, but he was right in the neighborhood and could host. He did a great job. He even had straight porn on TV for me to watch. I didn't even have to ask! I've kept in touch via email. Now I have an appointment to drop by his place tonight at 7:30. I'm hoping to turn this guy into my new regular! Wish me luck.