By up-for-it [Ignore] 12,Aug,18 07:52 Pageviews: 99
 I have been looking at pictures of some great looking sexy hot exiting men here and sometimes i see they are straight
My first reaction is ; how sad, i don't have a chance! Then i think; You idiot! Straight, gay, bi that's not going to change anything! Ypu look at their pictures, get excited and make a comment, and if your lucky you get a comment back! If i"m really lucky a conversation begins and an online relationship begins Only in my dreams those sexy hot... guys react with. Hey you made a comment on my pic, come and visit me and i'll give you a private show and we can be best friend forever! Not even the gay or bi guys do that, you idiot! Still, secretly.... you know! |
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Have you noticed that a LOT of 'straight' guys on here actually make a conscious decision to check the box in their profile "Interested in men and women"?
IMHO, including this tiny message says a LOT:
Many (most??) straight men on here have secretly longed to explore deeply buried, very taboo homoerotic fantasies, but haven't known how to begin. This website is perhaps their first completely anonymous chance to take a tiny risk by just checking that box, thereby inviting men in to see and comment on their most private and vulnerable thing in life.. and later perhaps admitting a desire to 'just look at' other men in a private message to another guy on here.
I've had excellent experiences by 'respectfully' encouraging these men to open up in chat. Just by subtle questions.. never a brick over the head.. It's surprising how many 'straight' men actually want to 'touch' another man's dick besides their own most-beloved toy ..if they could only figure out how to do it without being found out.
We only have to recall how frightening this all was for us at first and be very respectful of other men's intense fears of reproach by others, their religious upbringing, friends, wives, self-loathing, etc.
My point is: There are many men on here that we "don't have a chance with" .. but mostly it's because they live halfway around the world!
But we who have already jumped through hoops of fire to get where we are today can do A LOT OF GOOD by offering other men who want to peek out of a dark closet a safe place to say the 'unthinkable' at their own pace –without being overloaded by us– and perhaps open up to more diverse sexual adventures in the future.. which eventually benefits ALL of us because we've helped to create a more accepting society with with fewer people in fear of homosexual experimentation.
Since being active on this site and some other i learned that many straight guys are curious, and i had some good chats with some of them.
And they defenatly open up when they learn i have just recently begun experimenting with men so my experience is fresh and they know i have struggled with it for a long time before starting the experiment.
And talking about guys i think i don't have a chance with, it turns out some of them gladly give me the chance!
I was pointing out my reaction when i notice sometimes a guy is straight
I still make the compliment, only a few times have i had a reacion back where guys wanted to make sure i knew they were straight,most just accept the compliment
I do believe, however, that "anal remarks" –by these I mean MORE than just plain body admiration like "You've got a gorgeous pair of buttocks, man!"– are pretty hard to defend, because a lot of people, regardless of gender or sexual bent find anything to do with what goes into or out of buttholes repugnant to the core, and is an acquired taste (eww, did I say that?) ...that some never do, or care to acquire. And that needs to be respected by us all.
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