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By thebeewolf [Ignore] 19,Jan,19 15:24   Pageviews: 82

I am again considering labels. Gay, straight, bisexual, whatever.

I have had countless sexual encounters with both men and women. I'm bisexual? I'm not comfortable with it–even though others get openly angry at me for identifying as straight. Like REALLY angry.

I get where some of them are coming from. I get all the benefits of being outwardly straight in a very biased society, even while I secretly reap the benefits of sex with men. I totally do get this. But here's the thing: It's not like I'm Mike Pence. I mean I openly and vociferously advocate for gay rights and all the rest of it. My own daughter is happily married to a transsexual woman. I love them both and would defend them to the ends of the earth. So it's not like I'm hypocritical, like the "lifelong bachelor" Lindsay Graham or something.

Also, there's this: I'm not sexually attracted to men in any way. At all. Like, for reals, not attracted to men. I never see a guy walking down the street and think to myself "I'd like to do with him!" Never. In fact the idea kind of weirds me out. I do, however, have this experience with females 100 times a day. I think this matters. After all, if a guy says to you "I'm bisexual" you naturally think he's sexually attracted to both men and women. I mean that is literally the first thing you think. And it's not true of me at all.

In that sense I am quite straight. Sexually attracted to women but not to men. And yet... After I divorced my wife of 15 years I discovered via Craig's List that there are lots of men who would love to suck a straight guy's dick with no reciprocation. Something about them intrigued me. It's fun to be fetishised. They love cock. In ways that women just don't. So eventually I gave it a try. At first it was very tense and weird. Nothing about it was fun or exiting. In fact it was mildly nauseating. But after the first minute... after the guy's sucked on my dick for a while... wow. The physical sensations were so good that I decided to get over my "straightness" and just push through the awkwardness and just enjoy.

It's gotten easier since those first few times. But I still do feel that awkwardness. I just made a decision to not care about that in order to get the pleasure of a greedy, talented blowjob. The kind that only men can give. I've been doing it ever since, now 15 years on.

So am I bisexual? I guess in one sense I am. I do sexual things with men (letting them suck my cock). But in another, and I would argue important sense, I'm straight. I'm only sexually attracted to women. Would I suck your cock in return? Maybe. I have done it once or twice. But the thing is, it does nothing for me. It doesn't excite me and I have no real desire to do it. I could suck your dick for 10 minutes and not get an erection of my own. Seriously.

All of which leaves me thinking. Gay, straight, bisexual... Maybe the world isn't as simple as all that. Maybe I'm just straight but opportunistic. But here's the thing. It does make me think that no one should ever tell someone else how they should identify themselves. Ever. So just stop.

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By Curiousbored1298 [Ignore] 02,Mar,19 01:42
This speaks to me. First, there is a label or term for us. It's called Heteroflexible. It means that we have a sexual preference to women over men but we do engage in casual sexual actives with men. So from full sex, blow jobs, mutual masturbation to cyber sex. Now I'm not saying you are this label or you have to identify as it, i'm just saying there is a term for this.

I can relate because I love masturbating to photos and vids of cock. Cock does arose me but men don't. I love going on cam and jacking off with men online. I get hard thinking being naked with a guy and just watching each other stroke our cocks and even lubing up and rubbing our cocks together. But when I see a guys face, I'm not turned on anymore. I love it when they comment on my photos and send me dirty messages. But I don't find men sexy as I do women.

Only once was I so horny that I almost meet up with a guy to jack off together in person. It never happened cause I think we both chickened out. I think in time, I will ultimately just step out of my comfort zone and jack off with guy in person, but for now, this is just staying as a fantasy.
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By thebeewolf [Ignore] 02,Mar,19 10:24
I have in fact used that term before. I didn't know it was so specific, though. Nice. Seems about right. I think it's funny that in this day and age, when we are so busy congratulating ourselves for acknowledging that gay people exist, that we think we know absolutely everything about human sexuality. We don't. Not by a long shot.


By up-for-it [Ignore] 19,Jan,19 20:24
Some people need a label or need to label others to feel comfortable.

For me; i feel there is no label that perfectly fits me and i never had a problem with that!
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By #541363 [Ignore] 19,Jan,19 18:43
I am not attracted to men either. Will never have a relationship, or feel anything.
I got this fetish still: i can be attracted to a cock. I love the shape of many of them, and since i sucked a cock some years ago, i am into sucking them and getting the reward of cum in my mouth.
I have sucked the cocks of three men in my life. My first cock was from a guy i never met again. That was at my first sexparty at Curacao. On the second party there i met 2 guys and i sucked both their cocks. One of them twice. Of the other guy i sucked once on this party. Back in the Netherlands i met that guy again and sucked his cock twice.
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By #502696 [Ignore] 19,Jan,19 15:56
You and I are pretty much the same. I consider myself a "sexual" person. I love the way guys suck my dick, not into ass fucking and above all,love the sensation of fucking a nice tight and wet cunt.
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By german_guy [Ignore] 19,Jan,19 16:04
same here


By #514354 [Ignore] 19,Jan,19 15:33
Well, I think you need to do what ever YOU think is best.As long as you are honest about what you like and don't like ! Make up your own label!
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By thebeewolf [Ignore] 19,Jan,19 15:49
Thanks, pal! That's just how I see it


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