In the last couple of months i have discovered new things about myself.

One of those things was that i have a dominant side,having a man at my power and will seems to excite me. So i was wondering if i would really be comfortable in that situation

So i placed an ad on a site looking for someone who would help me discover this side of me.

Had some reaction to it , and one stood out. So we arranged a meeting today. He met me in a house he was renovating, and as i am doing the same thing,we had a good subject to break the ice!

Then it was time to get to "business" and what i thought was stuff to do with him renovating was infact tools for his bondage and SM activities. He was as turned out a very experienced man in that area and it was his dream to turn that house into a bondage/SM place

He showed me some tools for me to try, i decided to tie him up, blindfold him and whip him!

We had a one and a half hour session of me whipping him front and back I started softly slowly hitting him harder as i got more comfortable with it and i really liked it

At the end i jerked him off, and made him cum

After that we had a long chat about bondage/SM, what to do, what not to do. I learned a lot; a new world is opening up for me!

He is a man who can be the master and be submissive, he has lots of ideas he wants to work out and i feel i can be part of that! Not sure how far i will go but i feel i can trust him!

I left with a very good feeling about something that can be scary: giving total control to another person!