Been living in my new house over 3 years. In that time the wife has made very few attempts to get near me. We are older and she has a condition where she can not have intercose. I know she uses a vibrator or two. We would play around and get each other off. I have been asking for ever and all I hear is excuses. I have asked her to buy me a stroker or something I would like or something she can use on me. No response. So I ordered a fleshlite that should be here on Saturday. I am waiting to see her reaction. This should be interesting. It would help if she would watch, rub my balls or help in any way, I offer to help her anytime she wants. We shall see