I have grown up with unpleasant experiences in the US being the only one uncut in a cut family going through embarrassing situations and becoming self conscious about looks and smell especially with the women. I know I’m older than the majority of uncut guys now in the US. The older you are the more extreme it was for us back then as the circ rates continue to decline.

I do believe with my experiences it all has been fate what my foreskin has gone through to remain uncut today. Several events have occurred missing my circ appointments as I was born too early and my parents were distracted by going through a divorce. After my mom remarried, she tried to get me cut at a later age as she would get upset catching me playing with my foreskin. Something she said she never caught my cut brothers doing.

At 18 I agreed to privately meet with 5 curious cut guys into foreskin play and fetish. This spun off from a San Francisco Uncut jack off group that recently broke up. One of the guys tore my frenulum while using a cock pump on me and I checked myself into ER where they immediately gave me no choice but circumcision. I did however escape by just having the frenulum completely removed to prevent future tearing and once healed I found out it allow for full retraction. This and more leading to what I call developing a “fine tuning of my foreskin”.



If I maintain a daily regiment to go to sleep with the skin retracted to allow desensitization and free the glans to breathe and expand from staying restricted inside the foreskin all day.

At morning shower I pinch and pee to expand. Then a quick 6 finger insert stretch before retracting and washing (I do use soap).
When I pee, I retract and wipe. At night going to bed I retract and repeat each day. With this I find no build up or smell. The head stays desensitize and dry enough and remains expanded. Foreskin loose to keep less restrictions on the glans and I’m always ready for docking when opportunity arises. Before any play I ensure that I take the time to wash not due to hygiene but personal preference and respects for my partners. I don’t believe using circ as a reason for not having to wash before any sexual activity.

Even finding out about this fine tune methods I was still extremely self conscious due to the repeated frustrations from the women I dated and it pushed me over the edge. I saw a doctor and set a circumcision appointment at age 22. This all changed when I met a foreskin curious woman who helped change me and we experienced together and both understood the purpose and enjoyments the foreskin provides for both partners. I cancelled my appointment and here I am today married to her with 3 intact boys and 1 girl.

I could have been cut at 22 if I did not meet my wife but what remains from all this is the circ fetishes I developed in my early years. It’s so prominent today that I plan to get circumcised in my 2nd half of life. I want a low and tight cut. The wife has converted to living uncut having all cut partners before me but she knows all I have been through and is okay with my decision. We are still enjoying it today even more with the knowledge that I will be cut and it will be gone in the next 5 years.