Is it wrong or nasty to enjoy sex?
Big question; I did a lot of research on it after a serious kidney problem. The Urologist recommended at least 20 orgasms a month to prevent prostrate problems. That was 3 years ago, since I’ve been pretty much keeping up with that schedule, my swollen prostrate is no longer swollen, my bladder is in better shape, I sleep better, my dreams are more vivid I say pretty much keeping up, I actually went to every evening before going to bed, and sometimes at lunch as well. I’m going to try to cover all the things that I found important in my research so others might benefit. (As a side note, I don’t identify as gay, bi, trans, and I detest blanket labeling others, there is still way too much negative stigma to labels).

First, what do others say? Freud said we are sex driven because we have evolved into a pleasure driven species. Einstein said the only bad sex is a missed opportunity. C. Jung said sex drives our happiest times. None made any differentiation between different types of sex; in fact Einstein was known to have sex with guys as well as ladies; he wrote his wife every night while on teaching trips and described in detail his sexual encounters from the previous night.

The clitoris contains about 8,000 nerves and it’s sole purpose is to send pleasure signals to the brain to cause an orgasm. Depending on circumcision status, the glans or ‘cock head’ has 6,000- 8,000, also all connected to the pleasure centers of the brain.

These nerves can be stimulated by solo sex, two same sex partners, two opposite sex partners, or even more than two.
My General Practitioner Dr told me that not only does regular sex help with prostate and bladder health, but daily sex counters depression and memory loss.

Solo sex, called by many names, wanking, jacking off, shooting the johnson, is just as health supporting as any other sex, three of my regular doctors encourage solo sex; one said if you won’t have sex with you, how can you ask anyone else to?

So, Drs are now saying all sex is good, with reasonable disease precautions, psychologists are saying we need to forget the negative stigma of casual sex, and if people want to share their sex, do it as long as it’s legal. Many states have done away with the requirement of a formal marriage ceremony.

My personal feelings are; I have enjoyed solo sex since my 6th birthday, if anyone wants to share my cock or boobs, I’m all for it; there are a few things I haven’t yet tried that I want to: frotting, three guys together, anal sex. I have one time had a cock inside me, it was a special present to myself that I set up. I want to try more.

So, think and research for yourself and add your feelings to this blog; talking about sex is also something I really enjoy.