I have been married for over 40 years. In that time i have never been with another woman. To much drama involved.
This is not saying I have not been with someone else. I was having a great time on craigslist. My wife was traveling to the east coast to help take care of her mother. During that time it gave me the opportunity to invite some guy over for a nice suck fest.
This went on for a few years. Had one guy ask me if I was in shape. I told him Round is a shape. I had a lot of fun during that time. Some better than others