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By nekekal [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 02:52

I am married, never had any kids. I am here because I am extremely horny. The wife has not allowed me to fuck her for over 20 years. She did occasionally suck my cock if I begged enough, but the last time she sucked was over 5 years ago. She won't touch my cock.

So I am here looking for excitement and stimulation so I can masturbate.

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 04:34⤴

Wow.. sorry to hear. Also sorry to ask but I wonder why she does this to you and how you still manage to keep marriage?

By nekekal [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 12:37⤴

Good questions. I think that she found that she didn't like to fuck, and hated cock, and as time went on, she doesn't like me well enough to do something she hates just to make me feel good.

At first, I thought it was just me. So I tried doing more. I tried being more sensitive to her body. But after a while I realized that she just hated everything about sex. Then I thought that I could leave, but thought any other woman would probably be the same. I never actually met or fucked anyone who really liked my big cock in them. So I stayed, things got worse, now I am old.

By onthelose [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 15:55⤴

Man your sex I’ve mirrors mine . I wonder how many there have the same exact experience? What are we supposed to do in this situation? Go without I guess, this is a perfect illustration of how much women know or care about men.

By nekekal [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 16:53⤴

Before I found this site, I thought that I was alone in my missery. Since then I have found a lot of guys in a similar situation.

And as far as my wife is conserned, yes, either go without or do it myself. Initially she would glare at me when she caught me jacking off, but then I offered to let her do it. She doesn't approve, but now just discretely closed the door when she finds me jacking off.

About the last time she sucked my cock, she made the mistake of asking what I wanted for my birthday, and I told her I wanted my cock sucked. She could not think of a way out, so she said yes, and sucked my cock later that day.

She has never ask again.

By Harpo [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 20:15⤴

I understand! It might be different, but I get and know the lack of intimacy! Gotta have fun where you can

By nekekal [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 20:59⤴

Absolutely. I accept any attention.

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 23:16⤴

Sorry to hear. I don't know the feeling of your wife, but I think maybe every women is different? I think as female my first experience about sex was scary, I also think its a bit dirty and didn't want to do it. Slowly I learn to enjoy it. I think its very important part of relationship with male even though I don't enjoy it all the time. I think naturally men wants it more than female, so a lot of time I just do it because the man want to and not because I want to. I think if I can choose, I just want to do it maybe once every week or two weeks... But I don't think not doing it at all is good in relationship, but that is just me, because every woman is different and I don't think a man can force a woman to have sex if she really don't want

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 23:16⤴

I hope you work out a solution with your wife though

By nekekal [Ignore] 30,Dec,25 00:42⤴

As you say, all women are different. Unfortunately most of them that I met were similar.

As you noted, you could only have sex every couple of months. But you will do it more for the guy. I believe that is pretty normal. It turned out that my wife never wanted to fuck. But she initially thought she could do it often enough to keep me happy. But it is really difficult to do something, especially something like letting your body be penetrated by a large object, that you hate. Especially if you don't really like the person.

I think that this is more normal than most people realize.

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 30,Dec,25 01:13⤴

Can I ask, did she have bad experience before about sex? Like another man before you meet her did this without her agree to it? I hope its not too personal question. I just wonder if there is reason behind this? But also it could be no reason, I also can understand if woman just don't like the sex experience without reason and I think that is OK

By nekekal [Ignore] 30,Dec,25 13:10⤴

Yes. She was raped. When we first tried to fuck, her body would not let me in. I tried to be reasonable and let her want my cock inside of her. Over time she gradually accepted my cock. But she never liked it. We tried a little therapy, but she never really wanted to be fucked so it didn't work. I offered to pay for some other professional therapy but she said that she didn't want to be a sex fiend like me. That hurt. I should have left at that point.

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 30,Dec,25 16:29⤴

Omg.. Sorry to hear. I think so bad she gone through that experience. I hope she can recover fully but also understand that may not be possible. So sad...

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 30,Dec,25 16:33⤴

I had one bad experience before, I was on a very crowded metro and a guy use the chance to put his hand under my skirt and started touching me... I was so scared I didn't do anything. He did this for about one minute I think, then it went to next station so I finally could leave the train. But it felt like torture for a long time even though just one minute. Since then, I am scared to take metro, and I usually prefer to take bus or taxi if I need to go somewhere. When I am on metro and see many people I get nervous so I sometimes get off metro just because of this

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 30,Dec,25 16:34⤴

I didn't want to share this experience but because you bring up your wife so I thought I share this too, I think not easy for men to understand this feeling maybe

By nekekal [Ignore] 30,Dec,25 20:18⤴

I think that she recovered physically. It took a long time, but her body seemed to learn that my cock was not the enemy. Her body would accept arousal and accept penetration by my big cock.

But she never enjoyed it. She could orgasm if my cock was between her legs, rubbing against her cunt lips, but not inside. I did this as much as I could, but it was like sandpaper on my cock. As we got older, my cock got more sensitive and I tried to do it less.

I think most of these problems were religion based. Good catholic girls don't fuck or play with cock.

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 30,Dec,25 20:51⤴

I'm so sorry to hear...

By nekekal [Ignore] 31,Dec,25 02:10⤴

Thank you.

By Harpo [Ignore] 02,Jan,26 01:15⤴

That is not good at all! Ideally something like that needs to be agreed to not uninvited! You want it to be pleasureable not very fun! I hope you feel safe to travel on a metro again!

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 04,Jan,26 16:53⤴

Yes it really impact me a long time, I saw psychologist about it to help me feel safe again to go on public transport

But now I am OK with it, I think it don't bother me anymore

By Harpo [Ignore] 04,Jan,26 20:47⤴

That is good! And hopefully you get to have some safe fun

By AnnieYan [Ignore] 28,Dec,25 23:40

Thanks for all feedback, but I wondering if any chance you are afraid if your wife or kids find out about this? Sorry if I ask direct but just wondering, no need to answer if too difficult question

By Harpo [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 00:14⤴

A little afraid! But then she will know what I like and maybe share. Though I like having a little secret and showing others here how they excite me 😉

By nekekal [Ignore] 29,Dec,25 12:39⤴

No. The wife would not be happy, but would not do anything and doesn't really care what I am doing as long as it doesn't involve her.

By Harpo [Ignore] 28,Dec,25 23:23

I have a family with grown kids! I’m on here as I look for excitement, to have safe fun and get excitement I don’t get! I love showing myself off and seeing others nude, both men and women! I like getting excited and hard!

It is a personal thing to have children! I have no regrets and it is great having a family! I just keep that side seperate from my secret side on here💋☺️

By gangbanger76 [Ignore] 28,Dec,25 22:15

Im 50 and no, i never would have Kids
Think its about my past

By Cyberbi [Ignore] 28,Dec,25 21:05

Hmmm my only kid is 50 and their family brings me joy. 2nd marriage has gone on 45 years, our kinks have diverged, and I remember hot times past, and desire for diversity in sex brings me here.

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