I want to ask men here a question: Do man still masterbate when already have a girlfriend? I recently thinking if my boyfriend do this because when I visit his apartment and stay over few nights, I see his garbage bin has lots of tissue paper and I think guys need this to masterbate?

Also sometimes I think he doesn't want to have sex maybe because he already use up the energy?
I am too shy to ask him because I don't want to hurt his feelings so just want to know. I hope its not because I'm not pretty enough for him

Sometimes I'll jerk myself not long after sex just remembering how it was. Sometimes in hopes that I can soon fuck her.
You might want to offer to satisfy him whenever you can, but unless you are around and not busy all the time, he'll need to take care of himself.
Sometimes guys just get the urge and want to satisfy it immediately. It's all over in 5-10 minutes and he can get back on with his life and concentrate. And anything can trigger that urge, from a TV or magazine picture, a memory, or just a random erection that guys get occasionally.
You don't need facial tissues to clean up semen, there's lots of ways. There's toilet tissue that is flushed, or paper towels, or washcloths and fabric towels. Some guys like to swallow their own. Some even like it to dry and remain for a little while, or clean it all off in the shower.
It's possible that he has allergies and runny nose, but it's also very likely he masturbates and cleans up with tissues, because most men will do that.
But I should add that it's healthy to talk about sex with your partner. There are ways to bring it up that isn't confrontational or judging or critical. Even if he's very reluctant to do this, it is healthy and one should make the effort to communicate no matter how odd it seems at first. Good, open communication: it's really a healthy habit to learn as early as possible. Rub him a bit and ask some questions. It might even lead to deeper communication and some passionate love making!
If he doesn't care about you talk to him.. He might be afraid.
But your other question is about masturbation. I always masturbated, and some friends of mine masturbated when we had a gf or not. Sometimes we want to jerk our cock before we go out with the gf. Sort of games the pressure off of you know what I mean. Sometimes we want a quick one so that when we get to fuck her, we last more than a minute. Sometimes it feels good no matter what we are doing.
I am wound a bit too tight, and sometimes after she let me fuck her, I would sneak off to the bathroom and jerk my cock. I didn't want her to feel bad about not doing a good job and I know that she wanted to stop although I could fuck all night.
So yes, guys still masturbate when they have a gf some more than others. Don't worry about it.
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