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Naughty action from my boyfriend, is this normal or strange?

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By AnnieYan [Ignore] 20,Apr,26 17:33   Pageviews: 64

I want to share something and maybe ask for opinion. Yesterday I sleep at my boyfriend's home. When I wake up, I realize I didn't wear panties (I think panties = female underwear?) and I only discover it when I go to the toilet. This is second time this happened, but last time I discover the panties on the bed so I thought I accidently took it off when sleeping. But this second time made me think about it more so I find courage to ask my boyfriend. And I got answer from him: he took it off while I was sleeping because he think its sexy and funny. I was a little bit angry, but more embarrass so I don't know what to say at that moment. It was a bit awkward and I hope I didn't hurt his feelings.

Is this normal? I think my boyfriend do some strange things but maybe just I don't understand men very well. My sleeping clothes normally is like long dress and I just wear panties underneath, and my boyfriend loves to lift my skirt and pull down my panties when I wear skirt so maybe this is also why he likes to do this? I normally sleep very deep so I don't notice if he do this to me in middle of night...
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By AnnieYan [Ignore] 21,Apr,26 18:14
I talk with a very good female friend last night, she is a psychologist. She told me that some men have fascination of having sex with women if they are sleeping and this type of men also maybe like to look at women when they are not aware. Maybe this is my boyfriend type? Because he is quite shy type boy but he seems to have personality like this
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By liqnlap [Ignore] 21,Apr,26 19:39⤴
I am not sure if personality type is relevant here, though I am surely no psychologist. I think the question just boils down to plain respect for you and your body. And the difficult judgement you must make is whether your boyfriend can change so he respects you better. Regarding him as one or another personality type just lets him off the hook and means you have to just tolerate his disrespect.


By nekekal [Ignore] 21,Apr,26 16:52
I understand the feeling he has. It is always nice to enjoy the naked female body. I always loved to snuggle in behind a woman while we sleep with my cock against her and my arms wrapped around her holding her tits.

Unfortunately, not very many women enjoyed sleeping like that. Most seem to enjoy the full sack around them, feet to neck, like armor. Maybe it was.

But men need to respect the limits. If you want to sleep in a jumpsuit, he needs to respect that and not try to undress you for his own entertainment. Pretty soon you will probably wake up with his cock in you somewhere. Just say no.

But why do you want to sleep in underwear?? Sleep time is perfect for letting your body breath. You still have the full sack of a dress, but why. Sleeping naked is very liberating.
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By AnnieYan [Ignore] 20,Apr,26 19:11
Ai.. why do men do these stupid things. I think he's a nice guy and I really don't want to break up because of this
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By FoxStryder81 [Ignore] 21,Apr,26 11:12⤴
I wouldn't say you have to break up with him because of this, but, depending on how he reacts to your feelings about this will tell you a lot about him. If he's sorry and shameful and promises not to do it again and respect your boundaries, he may be fine. You can give him another chance. If he gets defensive or feels entitled over your body, I think you should cut him out sooner than later. t-rex is way off! "But don't you want to keep your man happy and make him feel loved..." is insane bullshit. You are so beautiful and you seem sweet. If enjoying consensual intimacy with your lovely body is not enough for him, cut him out. You can do better


By t-rex [Ignore] 20,Apr,26 21:53
I like to sneak a peek under skirts also but discreetly when in public, as far as the bedroom, I like to slide my hand over and feel a naked pussy. Maybe you should just go to bed without panties on.
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By AnnieYan [Ignore] 20,Apr,26 22:15⤴
Why women must change because of strange things that men do? I don't think it is fair. I think we should go to bed without worrying about this stupid things
By t-rex [Ignore] 20,Apr,26 22:19⤴
But don’t you want to keep your man happy, and make him feel loved, I would do what you want
By AnnieYan [Ignore] 21,Apr,26 01:32⤴
Ai... maybe you are right, I don't know...
By liqnlap [Ignore] 21,Apr,26 01:47⤴
Nope, not at all right. It is not your job to keep anyone else happy. A genuine relationship requires both concerned to care about each other and mutually please, sexual and otherwise. You should not have to go out of your way to change or wonder what will happen when you are asleep. If you cannot have confidence and trust in your sweetie, what kind of relationship do you have?


By BigLund [Ignore] 21,Apr,26 00:05
That’s so strange on part of him
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By liqnlap [Ignore] 20,Apr,26 19:15
Yes, I agree completely with FoxStryder81, too. I suggest you confront your boyfriend about his action as soon as you can. He should respect you much more than that. Maybe he is a nice guy as you say, but his action is disrespectful at the very least. Good luck with your discussion with him.
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By FoxStryder81 [Ignore] 20,Apr,26 17:54
That’s not normal, it’s disrespectful. And if you didn’t notice him taking them off while you sleep, it’s reasonable to be concerned about what else you are not noticing while they’re off. For some couples this may be normal or even erotic but if it makes you uncomfortable, which you indicated it did, it’s completely unacceptable. You need to have a blunt conversation about consent and boundaries. His feelings are irrelevant here. Consider this a red flag.
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By tb1 [Ignore] 20,Apr,26 18:09⤴
I agree wholeheartedly - he’s an abuser 🙁


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