I agree not to tell, her, but I also personally am not ok cheating on her either. It's a problem that I manage alone . I did tell her I cross dress, and it still creates problems, but we are still together. It's something I also do in private and that is not discussed.

Somewhere in between, I guess. I have never been with a man, but I do think about it, and I like gay, trans, and cross dress porn. I would like to suck a nice cleanly shaven cock and balls and try anal. Oddly, I'm not at all attracted to masculine men, or overly effeminate men.

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Your husband is a lucky man that you have the perspective you do. You’re right, for me it’s all about the feeling of contentment I get when I’m wearing women’s underwear. It’s not really sexual for e, and it sounds like not for your husband either. Finally after all these years I have a better understanding of why it’s such a compulsion for me. Thank you for your response and being someone who understands and supports their husband in this. I hope my wife comes around to at least not wanting to know and letting me be “comfortable” when she’s not around. She seems to be relaxing on it a bit. Part of the problem, she says, is that I didn’t tell her right away. We’d been together about 6 years before I said anything.

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Our experiences are similar. You are very lucky that your wife supports you at all and the fact the she is comfortable with you doing it with her there is exceptional. You are very lucky.

Thank you. I appreciate your reply. I’m finding that in this age of many identities trying to figure out where I fit in to be more difficult. I don’t necessarily want to be classified into a category but have been wondering how my experience relates to others.

I’m not sure I have any answers for you as I’m nearly 50 and have the same issue and more. I guess all I can suggest is to choose what you’re comfortable with and if you do get into a relationship to be honest up front. I’ve backed myself into a corner by being straight outwardly but not being honest with sexual curiosities with my wife.

Thank you

I like seeing dangling bits move during sex, so tranny, gay, BDSM (ideally facing down while suspended from a harness, people taking from behind with all their junk flopping.

Whichever you prefer

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I started just being around the house and then out in different areas outdoors. I have been to one nudist camp and liked it. One you go and force yourself to get naked with everyone else there is actually less sexual tension than being at a beach or pool.