I have been a bottom on more then one occasion and I can tell you it really depends on the top. Some just want to cum and don't care about you and others are aware of what it takes for you both to have a good time. If done right and he takes his time it can be a very pleasurable experience. One I would love to experience again .
thats not an easy qestion to anwser.. at first it feels exactly like you would imagine, and depending on the size you notice a a discomfort similar to a pinch but that passes and you discover a part of your sexuality that you didnt know existed. and you wont get that from a dildo ill tell you that right now. sex is a 2 player game. its truly remarkable.
I'm wondering why you say 'humiliating', as it isn't.
I was with a wonderful lady, and she suggested the idea, of loving me, with a toy, as a 'role-reversal' thing, and a role playing thing, we had been doing.
She was AMAZING, in every way, and she was so gentle, so loving, just wanting to show me another way to see sexuality.
It wasn't at all humiliating, or submissive, but just something we shared, that she suggested, and I am open-minded enough to try.
I never considered anything anal, as pleasure, but she showed me another way, and we made it a part of our relationship.
It wasn't dominance, or anything like that, but just how we felt!
She had the right toy, strap on, and I liked having her loving me, because it worked for us.
TOTALLY satisfying, for me, and her.
Only done it once and it was very pleasurable. A little uncomfortable at first but I soon got used to it and was able to enjoy it. The best part was when I came as he wanked me off, my arse contracting and relaxing around his cock as he moved inside me. Not sure if I'd want to do it again, but I don't want to die wondering about anything. Give it a try.
Hubby here. Honestly speaking, I realy dont think there are words to describe what it feels like to have a hard cock pulsating inside you. No toy even comes close. Definatelly something any curious guy should try for himself.
feels good. i tend to prefer to be the one doing the fucking but i have had a couple guys flip the script on me and ive enjoyed it a lot.depends on the guy for me more than anything else. it's always been with a condom but would like to try bareback sometime
I've had a few with condoms, and that was definitely better than any dildo. I have ONE guy who I let fuck me bareback, and that feels AMAZING!! He usually cums inside me, and it always feels so so good. I want to do it again, soon. His cock head is so big, I can feel it caressing my love canal the entire time. I am actually afraid of falling in love with it.He fucks me so nice...slowly at first, and gentle, which is very sexy.
Always loved it from when I was a teenager . When I get fucked I have multiple orgasms - and love it when spunk keeps leaking from my cock. It's even better when other guys are making you suck their dicks at the same time.
Also a long time ago, he's dead and we're all in our 70's, but she told me last week that she'd recently fucked her dentist, but he's too keen and now she has to find another one. She is the only on of two women I've ever met who can fuck and not get involved.
I've always wondered what it's like to be fucked, I suspect most men do but I've never had the chance. I have a friend who loves it, she likes to be fucked in the ass while sucking another guy off, sadly we live miles apart now and we're so much older so I guess that won't happen again. Her husband use to love to watch and wank while another two of us fucked her ass, pussy and mouth.
I love cock in my arse and will let any man fuck me as long as he wears protection. I really like going into a dark room and kissing other men while rubbing their cocks then pulling a rubber on them before I bend over and take them into my arse. Better still if they will go into a cabin and fuck me from the front then I can carry on kissing them and watch their face when they shoot inside of me.
I've never really wanted to try it with a guy, but this really amazing GF introduced me to it, and it is one of the most intense, wonderful feelings that you can have, if you relax, and want it!
She suggested it, and we went, together, and she mostly picked the toy she wanted, saying that if she had a penis, it would probably be about that size, but maybe not so 'pink' as the toy was!
We played a lot, and had straight sex a few times, after, and she just kept teasing, and touching, and then she asked if she could take my anal 'virginity', on her birthday!
A little prep, and a lot of gentle teasing, and laughing, and watching some porn, maybe a few drinks...
It didn't hurt, at all, and if you do it, and it hurts, you are doing it WRONG, or **** it!!
It's all about relaxing, and wanting to enjoy the experience.
Women get penetrated by men, during sex, but guys have no way of experiencing that, the penetration, into them, that women do.
Trusting a woman, or a male partner, penetrating you, can feel so erotic, so far beyond what you imagine, but you have to let go of the social 'stigmas' and the preconceived ideas you have, and just relax.
The right toy hits your prostrate, perfectly, and even if you are not fully hard, you can have the most intense orgasm you could ever imagine, especially with the right, sensitive partner, that senses your arousal, breathing, and knows when you are close to orgasm.
Personally, I would prefer her with that toy, and how she was holding, feeling, than a real cock from a guy that probably isn't so attuned to the feeling, but rather focused on the orgasm!
ErosUrge is exactly right If some one rush's it it can be painful. You do have to be prepared. I usually use a good sized butt plug on myself to loosen up. Your ass is nothing like a pussy. Well except that it is a whole. Before I had my first anal experience I had used toys to get stretched out many times. It does feel good if the angle is right, you get your prostate massaged , which really adds to the experience.
This best way I can personally describe it is....imagine the feeling you have when you need to pee REALLY BAD. Can you imagine it? Okay well to me and in my experiences, that's exactly how it feels.
I go out with a girl (she is a strap on girl in the bedroom). Her fetish is pegging. She loves it. Loves it so much that she can actually achieve orgasm when she nails me.
Fortunately she starts off very gentle. Once I'm showered she pulls the towel off and caresses the hole ever so gently as she tongues one of my nipples. She uses the pleasure of nipple licking to distract me from the attention to the puckered hole.
She knows I'm NOT a fan of penetration
She sits on the edge of the bed. I'm standing in front of her legs spread engaged in deep passionate kisses along with her finger slowly exploring my crevice.
Since I'm much more welcoming now she has me lay face down on her bed. Planting kisses on my butt she then resumes the hole exploration and now adds her tongue and flicks it up and down and swirls it around my hole. Automatically and voluntarily the sensation causes me to raise my butt up in the air (so this is playing right into her hands). The rimming feels wonderful I might add.
Soon the KY makes it appearance as she generously dollops as much lube as possible in my waiting anus. The cool lube feels soooo nice. She penetrates me gently with her finger. Then a small probe. Stretching out the pink puckered hole readying it for her dick.
She gives me a slow dance which is also the same time she is tightening up her strap on harness.
I'm laying face down spread eagle. She approaches me from behind telling me, "Gentle. Gentle. I'm about to insert the dick head only baby..."
It goes in and immediately it takes my breath away. I stand erect on my elbows and she gently pushes my head down. "Baby lay still and spread your legs."
I can feel my hole being stretched. She's excited now and the gentleness leaves. She's starts rockin' and she begins pounding. Her breathing is choppy. Moaning now. Breathing heavier. I can feel her hard nipples on my back. The humidity caused by our warm skin makes my back glisten.
That's when I feel her dick doing deeper and deeper.
There's that area below my belly button and above my dick that has so much pressure built up. It feels as if I need to pee REALLY BAD but I don't need to pee at all.
I grit my teeth and take it like a man. My grunts now are making her moan with excitement until she starts screaming comments like, "That's right...take it you bitch! You're a fucking faggot! Take that dick in your ass!! "
She orgasms then dismounts. Her satisfaction complete.
My hole stretched.
I had a nice 4" one for the first time last week. I am not sure how I feel about it. Kinda hurt at first, then once he got the whoe thing in it kinda felt good. The thought of it in there and the sound of him smakcing into my ass I think was more intense than the feeling itself.
You've pretty much summed up my feelings about taking it in the ass. That's not really my thing (I'm more a cocksucker), but if a guy is really hot, I'll give up my ass to him. Yes, it kinda hurts at first until you learn to relax your ass muscles and open things up and then it feels kinda good.
But the most intense feeling of pleasure is psychological. The knowledge that this really hot guy has his dick inside you feels good. The sound of him smacking up against your ass is indeed mesmerizing. And the knowledge that he is using your ass for his sexual pleasure and satisfaction is enormously rewarding.
Yes, that was the first time having someone's dick in my butt. It still gives me a hard one just thinking about it. The next step is for him to cum in my butt, I wasn't ready for that at that point. You nailed with the whole psycholocial aspect of it, that's more intense like I said then the physical part. But that is also what made it such a good time all the way around, played on the phycial and mental part of sex.
i fuck my manpussy with dildos,but ache for real cock.i use big fat toys so always open right up. i often cum hitting the prostate,,but want hard cock in me.
"...I fuck my manpussy with dildos...but want a hard cock in me."
Man, find a way to make it happen! You have already discovered that you enjoy anal penetration and can even make yourself climax with prostate stimulation. But there is nothing like having a living, breathing man mount you, put his dick in your ass and fuck you to climax. To hear his heavy breathing as he gets close and his moans of pleasure as he goes over the top is like nothing else in the world. FIND A WAY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN!
From a mostly 'Hetero' point of view, I knew a girl that loved anal teasing, to get her guy to the point when she could give him that AMAZING prostate caress with orgasm, knowing that she had a 'Gift', and it's like a ****, and he can't get enough, after that first time!
Don't judge until you experience it!! She was playful and just kind of touched, and teased, and it didn't EVER hurt. Once I got over my irrational 'fear/anxiety' and just relaxed, it was REALLY AMAZING! It won't 'Make you Gay', but no offense, because there is nothing wrong with that, OK!
Just get over your 'societal issues' and relax, and play with a girl, or a guy, or just yourself, and figure out how you love it!! There are soooo many toys out there that you can't help but find one that 'hits your button'!!
If it hurts, relax, and just back off a bit. Your ass isn't like 'porn pussy'! Take it slow and easy. Maybe find the textured toy, maybe a strap-on for her, that feels good, slowly, gently stroking!
Guys or Girls, just take some time and figure out what you like, and what feels nice. . .
I was with a wonderful lady, and she suggested the idea, of loving me, with a toy, as a 'role-reversal' thing, and a role playing thing, we had been doing.
She was AMAZING, in every way, and she was so gentle, so loving, just wanting to show me another way to see sexuality.
It wasn't at all humiliating, or submissive, but just something we shared, that she suggested, and I am open-minded enough to try.
I never considered anything anal, as pleasure, but she showed me another way, and we made it a part of our relationship.
It wasn't dominance, or anything like that, but just how we felt!
She had the right toy, strap on, and I liked having her loving me, because it worked for us.
TOTALLY satisfying, for me, and her.
I never had any too. Must feel better than toys.
She suggested it, and we went, together, and she mostly picked the toy she wanted, saying that if she had a penis, it would probably be about that size, but maybe not so 'pink' as the toy was!
We played a lot, and had straight sex a few times, after, and she just kept teasing, and touching, and then she asked if she could take my anal 'virginity', on her birthday!
A little prep, and a lot of gentle teasing, and laughing, and watching some porn, maybe a few drinks...
It didn't hurt, at all, and if you do it, and it hurts, you are doing it WRONG, or **** it!!
It's all about relaxing, and wanting to enjoy the experience.
Women get penetrated by men, during sex, but guys have no way of experiencing that, the penetration, into them, that women do.
Trusting a woman, or a male partner, penetrating you, can feel so erotic, so far beyond what you imagine, but you have to let go of the social 'stigmas' and the preconceived ideas you have, and just relax.
The right toy hits your prostrate, perfectly, and even if you are not fully hard, you can have the most intense orgasm you could ever imagine, especially with the right, sensitive partner, that senses your arousal, breathing, and knows when you are close to orgasm.
Personally, I would prefer her with that toy, and how she was holding, feeling, than a real cock from a guy that probably isn't so attuned to the feeling, but rather focused on the orgasm!
This best way I can personally describe it is....imagine the feeling you have when you need to pee REALLY BAD. Can you imagine it? Okay well to me and in my experiences, that's exactly how it feels.
I go out with a girl (she is a strap on girl in the bedroom). Her fetish is pegging. She loves it. Loves it so much that she can actually achieve orgasm when she nails me.
Fortunately she starts off very gentle. Once I'm showered she pulls the towel off and caresses the hole ever so gently as she tongues one of my nipples. She uses the pleasure of nipple licking to distract me from the attention to the puckered hole.
She knows I'm NOT a fan of penetration
She sits on the edge of the bed. I'm standing in front of her legs spread engaged in deep passionate kisses along with her finger slowly exploring my crevice.
Since I'm much more welcoming now she has me lay face down on her bed. Planting kisses on my butt she then resumes the hole exploration and now adds her tongue and flicks it up and down and swirls it around my hole. Automatically and voluntarily the sensation causes me to raise my butt up in the air (so this is playing right into her hands). The rimming feels wonderful I might add.
Soon the KY makes it appearance as she generously dollops as much lube as possible in my waiting anus. The cool lube feels soooo nice. She penetrates me gently with her finger. Then a small probe. Stretching out the pink puckered hole readying it for her dick.
She gives me a slow dance which is also the same time she is tightening up her strap on harness.
I'm laying face down spread eagle. She approaches me from behind telling me, "Gentle. Gentle. I'm about to insert the dick head only baby..."
It goes in and immediately it takes my breath away. I stand erect on my elbows and she gently pushes my head down. "Baby lay still and spread your legs."
I can feel my hole being stretched. She's excited now and the gentleness leaves. She's starts rockin' and she begins pounding. Her breathing is choppy. Moaning now. Breathing heavier. I can feel her hard nipples on my back. The humidity caused by our warm skin makes my back glisten.
That's when I feel her dick doing deeper and deeper.
There's that area below my belly button and above my dick that has so much pressure built up. It feels as if I need to pee REALLY BAD but I don't need to pee at all.
I grit my teeth and take it like a man. My grunts now are making her moan with excitement until she starts screaming comments like, "That's right...take it you bitch! You're a fucking faggot! Take that dick in your ass!! "
She orgasms then dismounts. Her satisfaction complete.
My hole stretched.
You've pretty much summed up my feelings about taking it in the ass. That's not really my thing (I'm more a cocksucker), but if a guy is really hot, I'll give up my ass to him. Yes, it kinda hurts at first until you learn to relax your ass muscles and open things up and then it feels kinda good.
But the most intense feeling of pleasure is psychological. The knowledge that this really hot guy has his dick inside you feels good. The sound of him smacking up against your ass is indeed mesmerizing. And the knowledge that he is using your ass for his sexual pleasure and satisfaction is enormously rewarding.
Man, find a way to make it happen! You have already discovered that you enjoy anal penetration and can even make yourself climax with prostate stimulation. But there is nothing like having a living, breathing man mount you, put his dick in your ass and fuck you to climax. To hear his heavy breathing as he gets close and his moans of pleasure as he goes over the top is like nothing else in the world. FIND A WAY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN!
Don't judge until you experience it!! She was playful and just kind of touched, and teased, and it didn't EVER hurt. Once I got over my irrational 'fear/anxiety' and just relaxed, it was REALLY AMAZING! It won't 'Make you Gay', but no offense, because there is nothing wrong with that, OK!
Just get over your 'societal issues' and relax, and play with a girl, or a guy, or just yourself, and figure out how you love it!! There are soooo many toys out there that you can't help but find one that 'hits your button'!!
If it hurts, relax, and just back off a bit. Your ass isn't like 'porn pussy'! Take it slow and easy. Maybe find the textured toy, maybe a strap-on for her, that feels good, slowly, gently stroking!
Guys or Girls, just take some time and figure out what you like, and what feels nice. . .
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