Every time i fuck my wife i tear hear as my cock shaft is bigger lower down my shaft ..

Coming from an above average guy it's really not what people think is great. Honest to god, when I'm having sex with a girl half the time they say it hurts too much like somthing is ripping, and even when I go down after mine has been in there, there is vaginal tears and cuts. So we can only have sex 2-3 times a week max. Have not met a girl yet where it slides right in and have nothing to worry about. They seem to like it big, but I can tell that doesn't look like it feels good.

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Mines about 8.75" long and 6.75" circumference.

It could depend on the woman. I'm just 7" and it worked fine for my ex, as long as I didn't drive too deep or too hard. Actually her preference is for maybe a little bit thicker and a bit shorter... but she never complained about my tool.

One thing that longer buys is the ability to do some different positions. For example, laying on my back, and her on top and on her back, you can't penetrate as well if you're shorter. (I like this one because I can get to her tits better.) Or spooning from the back, if she's got a generous butt, it can be hard to couple if you're not longish.

But... you find which positions work best for your particular sizes and shapes.

When I was growing up the idea was that 6ins was just the right size and girls liked those. I like to feel cocks under that size but these days it seems that girls have got bigger ideas.

I'm 6 to 6.25 inches and slightly bigger than almost every cock I've ever seen with the exception of just a few. I feel about 80% of guys are between 5 and 6 inches. I also feel guys that are 6 or above are just more likely to show theirs off. Where as average a smaller guys are shy about showing theirs. I have also had women say mine is big and I assume that because most of the guys they have seen are smaller

Think 6 inch work just find

Mines 5.8 and I love it

I have exactly 6" and prefer a nice smaller cock myself

i want around 7" length and 5.5" around, it's about my favorite size and shape to suck on as well

Ah yes, cock size. If you've got a six inch cock you're larger than average. There have been at least two serious studies of this very subject.

The first was conducted by the famed sex researcher Dr Alfred Kinsey in the late 1940's. Dr Kinsey and his associates came up with an average length of just over six inches.

A more recent study was done in the late 1990's of fifteen hundred college age men and that study came up with an average length of just over five inches.

Now did the human penis become about one inch shorter in the fifty years between these two studies? Probably not. The difference can be explained in how the data were collected. In the Kinsey study the subjects measured themselves in private and reported the results. There was no attempt to verify the accuracy of their measurements. In the later study the researchers did the measuring.

And no, they don't need any help in collecting the next set of measurements. I already asked.

actually, i'd prefer having a nicely-proportioned 6" x 5" cock that gets nice and HARD and has little issues with CUMMING, to having one of those thick floppy 8-inchers that have lost the ability to retain as much **** in the erectile tissues or reach orgasm as easily as when they were younger.


and so my preference here has been met

I was told by a urologist who is a friend of mine that more men are 6 inches or less than those that are over 6 inches. He said the most accurate medical survey puts the average at 5.23

sex is meant to be gentle for both parties and not an excuse for a man to hurt a woman.

It looks very nice to me

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A 6 inch cock is fine

A 6 inch cock would work perfect for me..

6.5" x 5.5" never had a complaint and never felt short changed, utterly, totally 100% happy with my dick.

1. Size doesn't really matter unless you're really small or really big
2. When it comes to size, girth is more important than length
3. Your perception that there are 'so many massive cocks' on this site is purely selection bias: you're remembering all the big ones and ignoring the many, many more smaller guys. It's not always intentional and we're all guilty of it from time to time.
4. Did I mention that size doesn't really matter? There's nothing you can do about your size anyway, so there's really no point fretting about it.

I've actually had a few people say if it ain't 8, it ain't great, and no sex for me. OK so they didn't make it rhyme, but I believe the internet has made 6" passe, and 8" is the new 6" of the past.

6 inches is just fine. I've been with some smaller than 6 (and yes for me there is such a thing as too small, I was with a guy long ago who was maybe 3 inches), and my guy is over 8 inches. There is also too much, one of my ex-boyfriends was huge (11 inches and almost to fat to even give him any sort of oral pleasures). Stop worrying about the size of your toy.

I think that the phrase "size matters" applies when you're talking about a 4-incher. If you've got a 6-incher you're fine, you're not considered small, and that's the average so nature built things where average is plenty to get the job done. Many women would prefer 6 inches to 4 inches, but 8-9 inches to 6 inches? Probably not as many. Also there are plenty of vaginas that fill up after about 4 or 5 inches of shaft so having a 5-incher puts you slightly on the small side but it's a good fit for many women. I think it's the 4-inchers that would usually get passed over for the 6-7 inchers in many cases (other things being equal of course).

Mine is 6 inches and I'm pretty happy with it but I'd be really happy with 7 inches, cocks that size are just really hot. Not sure I'd rather have 8 inches than 6, though. cocks that big tend to be more difficult to insert in desired openings...