Im sure a couple of you have seen my posts as of late. But if not here is a quick recap. My life has gone from awesome to shit since august. The wife and i used to have a great relationship, but for some reason either my doing hers, or a combination of both it is no more. We no longer have sex, we fight over little things, everyday is a challenge to get through. I have posted before situations and back story so i will not add it here but to say this. I work alot, we live in a tiny apartment for which we have a lease. My wife takes an excersise class that is more important to her than life itself. I have asked for advice before and am doing it again because of a new development in the story. You all have advised counseling to which i have tried to get her to do but she will not. Maybe that is what we need, but not what se wants. Anyway the new development is this. Last night i got a message from one of her coworkers asking how i am doing. I replied fine why? To which this tale of bullshit was set before me. The wife has been talking shit about me to everyone at her work. Saying i am a cheap son of a bitch, a real asshole. I make her feel hollow inside. Im like what? Because at home she for the most part nice, if not distant. Then her coworker informs me that there is a rumor that she is cheating on me. With another coworker. My informant felt after what they saw going on at work this past week that i should know about the rumors. What i am asking is how should i proceed with this?