First and foremost, you need to be responsive to your partner's responses. If he gives a moan or grunt, it might be because he likes or doesn't like, you have to ask. You have to ask for and take direction if/when needed. It's about his gratification and not just yours. I can't begin to tell you how many disappointing blowjobs I've gotten from those who don't know this advice. And by following this advice, and really getting into the cock, worshipping and savoring it and slutting out and making it last, and narrowing techniques down through (gentle!) trial and error, both me and recipient have had amazing times.


So as far as actual technique goes, one thing I've been recently perfecting is gradually and gently and slowly testing my throat capacity as I still have a gag reflex. But I get the cock as far back there as I can, then bob my head back and forth in a gentle stroking motion. I (gently!) add some tongue pressure on the underside (or topside as the case may be, haven't tried this much from the side yet), so as to make it as tight (not too tight! i stress, not too tight, unless that's what the suckee wants), and basically go back and forth with a cock-massaging motion using my lips, cheeks, tongue, mouth and (shallow) throat encasing that cock. It feels heavenly for me as sucker having that head and shaft moving back and forth in there like this.


That can get them cumming in like 20 seconds, so I can only do it so long and because he and I wanna make it last more, I come back up and (gently! with spit lube!) stroke the cock (including the head if the cock-haver likes that), just work the head a bit with tongue swirling around the top, etc. Or if the nutsack is really nice too (lots of variation here on guys, including some au naturel hairy style that I don't go for - having hair get caught in my mouth is a turn-off when giving head if only because i have to stop to pick it out which is annoying) i'll give the nuts a working over as the nuts-haver likes it. (I don't rim at this point. I'm all about the cock and not the poophole. ymmv)


Anyway, this usually makes for a few/several minutes of bliss for the both of us, and usually with him shooting his nut nectar in the back of my mouth/shallow throat while i do that massaging motion i described. Bonus points: place your thumb (no pressure needed) at the base of the urethra/spongy part on the underside while he cums and feel the pulsations, it's fucking amazing to feel that while the cock is halfway in the mouth and throat goo shooting out in sync with the pulsations.


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All I know is, if I could get a blowjob like that I'd come back for more and more of it, none of this one-time hookup stuff.


Now let's hear some other tips from you expert cocksuckers/worshippers out there.