When Craigslist was up and running I used it to find curious guys. I seeked them out because they were safe and I love being the first cock for them. I've met about 25 of them and EVERY one was a great cocksucker because they have a cock and know what a good bj is and they've been thinking about it for anywhere from 2-10 years. One guy was curious for 20 years!!
Some of them have become longtime cock sucking friends but many of them did it once and disappeared.
I always felt like I had given them something that they really wanted and I also know that they weren't out sucking the cum out of some pig who didn't care about their safety, you know, a community service.
One thing that I KNOW is is that if you are curious, it NEVER goes away. Do it but do it safe!

click my other posts ive written one that opens with "its neither gay or straight" that should have an answer for you

Curious too, but like it, as a fantasy, not really wanting to do anything, but maybe share 'what-ifs' and ideas, for fun?

I think you're confusing possessive pronouns and article+verb. This is why your sentence makes no sense.

Ok, now can we get to the point, what us it your trying to tell us

Many of us are married discreet bi. We get a bad rap for being flaky. But really it's all about the "schedule". Just when I think it's the weekend to "play", life gets in the way. But I keep looking!

?????Baffled and confused here!!!

Well said.