Oh sure. The wife never was much interested in fucking. She was gradually cutting me off. Then she went into menopause. She just quit. No cock in her body. The sad thing was that I used to cum early, but as I got older, I could last longer. I loved this as I really love to fuck, but my wife hated it since she hated to fuck.

I used to get a pity blow job now and again, but now she just tells me to jerk myself off. Which I do daily. But I would pay a lot to get my cock inside of a woman again. Pretty pathetic but true.

cat please share your post menopause stories!

That's why we should think of sex as being separate from love and companionship. If one person in a relationship had sexual needs that the other isn't interested in then that person seeking to have sex with someone else is a good idea and should be seen as part of a normal process.

However, the way we think is influenced by a society that imposes unnatural rules, largely due to fucked up religions, and these rules are often laws, be them written or unwritten. If you examine, however, what I said above, then you'll realize that these rules must be revised.

If you live the revision in the hands of natural evolution of society, it may take, say, another 500 years to get over the religion-imposed rules. By that time you'll be gone. So you got to do what you feel like doing, alays being careful that you live in a society that will immediately have you in the wrong, and so will your wife.