You have to insist but with kindness. I am the only man to have anal sex with my wife. We stay together from 12 years. The first time was after six month, and so we made it once a month. But in the last 5/6 years we regularly have anal sex every time we make sex

The best way to get your wife to give up her asshole to you is to give up your asshole to her. Get a dildo that is at least as large as your own dick, or preferably larger, and show her that you can take it. Stick your ass up in the air and let her have at it, either with a handheld, or even better with a strap on. Let her strap it on, mount you and fuck you silly.

Really, if you have any respect for your wife and her desires, then you wouldn't be pressing her to do anal when she doesn't want to.
You can't make someone like a particular sex act, they either like it or they don't.

Sure, you may pressure her into letting you do anal, and at what expense? her disliking everything that you do and eventually disliking you.

No matter how much we want to do a particular sex thing, it needs the other person to also want to do that thing, otherwise it's no more than rape.

Enjoy the regular sex with your wife, and for the moment forget pressing her to do anal.


You asked for opinions, that is mine.

From Matt's Wife: I would suggest that you make it about pleasing her and put your needs secondary. I used to hate it too but after years of learning by both Matt and I, I now love it. Even rough sometimes. Have you ever offered to lick her ass? That is something all women should have done to them.