Started by #108665 [Ignore] 12,Jan,11 16:26
 | Anyone else out there married but your wife hates sex? Mine does because of a surgery that resulted in the total loss of her sexual desire. I love this site because it is a sexual relief for me. I realize some of you think if your married you shouldn't be on this site. I see it as harmless fun! And I do mean fun! |
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If you just want to fuck,get a girlfriend and hire a maid.
Cheating spouses ruin homelife for children and the 1 being loyal.
If you are not happy in the marriage , do the least harmful thing to the spouse. Divorce and settle the estate in a fair way and move on. And explain it to your kids HONESTLY.
Don't lie. IT HURTS>
I know this because I was raised in a home that my father worked out of town. Was loyal to my mother although she accused him of shit all the time.
When I hit 14 or so, she was going thru that menopause thing. She starting flirting with anything that had a dick. Lost alot of weight,got herself all straightened up, and ran off with a logging truck driver. Left me at home alone for 4 days a week while my dad worked out of town. I managed the home maintaince, went to school ,with perfect attendance until I got the tick fever and missed 3 days.
I saw the pain it caused, And it hurt me as well.
So when I read about someone complaining about lack of sex and they want to cheat on their spouse just for sex,it will come back on you and it HURTS those around you.
And you don't sit crying over good times you had
There's a girl right next to you
And she's just waiting for something to do
And if you can't be with the one you love, honey
Love the one you're with
She has always hated to fuck. She faked it for years, because she wanted to be married and ruin my life
I thought that it was me for a long time. I tried everything that she suggested. She didn't try anything I suggested. Gradually, I figured it out. She just hates everything about sex.
I actually used to like the woman, so we stayed together.
I decided long ago, that if I ever got the chance to fuck someone else, I would be on them so fast that their head would spin. A regular would be perfect. I would even pay on a regular basis if I could find a whore.
So my advice would be to go fuck the other woman. Don't tell the wife. She doesn't need to know and will probably be happy that you are no longer bothering her about it, and you seem happier and more relaxed.
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Actually, ideally, it should have been your wife who would let you, and encourage you, to have sex with another woman. Sex is a need. Being married and caring for someone is another. If the two can't be done with the same person, you have no choice.
You see, we're controlled by chemicals that build in our brains. If you don't find a way to fulfill your natural needs, your life quality will probably deteriorate. And this will be bad for you and your wife. On the other hand, if you periodically get your needs fulfilled then you'll be happier and this will be good for your wife too.
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You see, throughout their lives, women take it for granted that it's the man's job to seduce them. Sexual gratification is a given for them. They don't have to try. So they never learn how to try when the spark isn't there. Whereas, a man, having tried each and every day of his life, knows how to fake it if necessary. Of course, exceptions exist, but, I think, that, generally speaking, this is what's going in.
for either you. If you have sex you'll be cheating but you'll have solved your mood problem. You weigh the two alternatives, you choose the most sustainable one. That it's, the second alternative.
The only way I'd be willing to marry a girl (after 5-6 years of living together), is if she was willing to agree that if we ever go without sex for two weeks, either of us is allowed to get it from someone else - as long as we don't lie about it, and offer to let the other person watch if they really want to.
If another two weeks pass without sex, repeat as necessary.
It is not the most but a HUGE part of the foundation of marriage.
She doesn't know I am here but I am sure she wouldn't be surprised if she found out.
the ultimate goal would be to get her on here with me if I can get her old self back, and try things that we haven't yet.
Then she got into an IRC emotional connections with a guy. Prior to knowing our sex life was breath taking. She was wild and like when we had first married, prior to kids. I fell back in love with her.
Then I learned it was by proxy.
The rest of the story last five years and it tested my soul and is detailed. I worked, she worked on our marriage and stayed together, mostly all good.
Thirty years married, thirty three years together.
....and at only 50 years old, she says she is "too old."
.......As the male partner you have to give them a break,..keep telling them how attractive and 'mature' they are and how much they turn you on, and never hesitate to make love to them all over,....cherish every part until they get the message.
....Whether or not one is married is essentially meaningless as regards looking at this site. It only becomes a problem if you seek out another partner here or masturbate so much while looking at the pix that you have nothing left over for your partner etc. Just looking at this site is hardly a problem for an intelligent mind and certainly no 'cheat' on a physical partner.
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