I commented on someones photo, they thanked me for the comment, and when I tried to reply to say your welcome for the comment, I couldn't, because I was blacklisted! Smh

I feel like a reason should be given for the blacklisting of members. It is offensive to be blacklisted for no reason at all. To me it is no different than a total stranger giving me the finger while I am eating breakfast, Or it is just as silly as someone holding a newspaper in front of their face as I walk by so i can't make eye contact. If you put your naked pictures on the internet you might be seen by someone you would not want screwing you.
But at the same time, the clock keeps on ticking rather you black list me or not. I will survive it. But that does not mean it is not offensive and it should be explained.
Trust me,I tried not to black list 2 of the folks that I did but they continued so I did. But the 2 that blacklisted me,I have no idea, just out of the blue,BAM blacklisted? It tends to leave me wondering WTF?

Call me simplistic but if a member blacklists you then that is a clear indication that they do not wish to interact with you for some reason. So leave them be.

I know of female members who enjoy receiving messages and even unsolicited photos, but there are others who do not as the deluge can be overwhelming and sometimes offensive.

My own maxim is that if I send a message and don't get a response, it may have been lost in the deluge, so after a few days I may send another. If the second is not responded to I get the message and leave the member alone.

There's no way that guy is 54, too! He looks like 74.

Well, you got to give the member a high five and an 'atta boy!" for his tenacity.


The term 'molest' seems to be a bit over the top, the fact that he he creates new profiles in order to maintain some type of contact is indeed excessive, aggressive and creepy.

very true