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A member was reported for posting about his "deviant" fantasy. The reporting member included a link to an "Invitation Only" group, the post(s) have disappeared or were never there YET 5 members with their infinite wisdom have voted to delete the member! Yep! JUST BE CAREFUL.....
Edit,what I find odd now that I look at it,there was 5 or 6 votes to delete when I added mine,and i did it about 15 minutes ago,your post about it was a hour ago? um.how did that happen? perhaps my vote didn't count?
Although you are the moderator ,is it not possible it was posted at a time you were not moderating?
Regarding me being the moderator, I absolutely do look at the posts in the groups that I moderate. There have been times that I am concerned about posts and rather than delete them and be accused of censorship, I reach out to admin for guidance.
It's peculiar the nasty posts and names that are abundant in the Forum yet you, AS WELL AS Daniel, badboy666, cloudbreak, steve3095, CAT and DokJones all decided to vote to delete a member. Just an f.y.i., that and a couple other of the groups I oversee are by INVITATION ONLY. I instituted that to be able to closely monitor sensitive groups. Members have to DM me for the invite and in order for you and the other 6 "sheep" to be able to post OR READ anything in that group, you have to be a member.
phart, please tell me what you see when you pop on this link. /groups.php?id=234
as long as the subject matter is 18 up,go for it and have a ball!.
How many people are in jail because of evidence called hear say
The concern that I understood was that a group member, in a CLOSED GROUP, posted a FANTASY about something involving a minor. But IF you join a group titled YOUNG BOYS FOR SEX, you're probably not going to be talking about the weather or donuts.
YOUNG and BOY are both a subjective terms meaning what it means to me might not be what it means to you. At 60, "young" could be 50, 40, 30, 20. Take, for instance, the Catholic priests, "young" for them was probably 8 to 14, just sayin'.....
Hey, looks, looky......I was able to make a post and NOT tag admin.
thats what I saw when I cliced the link
I am admitting to voting to delete as several others did.I am hardly a sheep,me and cat disagree on everything almost,you would think we were tied by our tails to a clothesline,but this time we agree on this subject.
People posting a bunch of internet pics, don't need to be taking up space, people talking about k1ds in a sexual way,don't need to be here, people making physical threats, don't need to be here,just some things that shouldn't be tolerated,
As for Daniel's comment/reason; "He is posting too much stuff about him fucking kids or himself as a kid touching his father's dick. Doesn't sound like an innocent fantasy anymore." If anyone bothered to investigate Daniel's claim, they could have validated the accused member HAD NOT commented on any member's pictures, the accused member HAD NOT blogged on that subject matter and HAD NEVER posted in the Forum. So where is all the "stuff"? Daniel's claim was BULLSHIT but 6 of you blindly followed and that's why I referred to you as "sheep"....it was that or numb-nuts.
Even a hint that un.derage children are being exploited , real or imagined, is a travesty. And, you, Bella!, should know better than to host this garbage. Yes, we are all pervs to some degree for being members of ShowItOff.org, but, there are limits. Daniel was right to bring it to our attention. I will vote the same every time the subject of un.derage sex with an adult comes up.
Rather than you worrying about the distasteful and unsavory things that others post, you need to clean up your act.
I would also like to know the administrators thoughts on this.
Besides the person can open a new account,and knows now not to discuss that particular subject and they can move along as they wish , no harm done in the long term.
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Who made the delete request?,
What does Daniel have to say about it? what does the admin have to say about it?
why is'nt there a appeals process for the person in question?
why is the earth spinning?
Why etc?
the simple fact is we are not all Dick Tracy's and Nancy drews and I saw enough people felt there was a problem, there was already 5 or 6 people had voted delete, and I couldn't understand why it was still showing,5 is supposed to be enough,so I clicced delete to make sure there was enough vots.
You're looking at my play-by-play as to who voted "how" and say something doesn't add up. -3 plus +7 equals +4 NOT +5! Stop scratching your head, cocking withdrew his vote making it -2 plus +7 that equaled the +5. phart's vote was the nail in the coffin......
So now who should be ashamed for hosting a smutty group
Quit being a bunch of old fudie dudies
“Young guys (18+) for sex”? It seems to me that the word boys is the problem.
It is my opinion that the word boys is inappropriate when used in this context.
Merry Christmas all! 🎄
And what’s wrong with leaving and coming back using a new nick?
Your “Bwahahahahas” seem to be selective. I don’t see you laughing at some other members that have multiple accounts.
As always, you are predictable. I knew sooner or later you would bring all this 💩💩💩 up when you can’t excuse your actions. You have a thin skin and a long tongue.
You do know what I mean by
Say it it, forget it.
Write it, regret it.
Do you really feel justified and unashamed with regard to a number of the hateful things you've posted?
"Some where [sic] made in the heat of the moment and I was angry, but, they’ve always been the truth. Can you say the same?"
I've be honest and I believe that for the most part that I've been tactful and TRUTHFUL without being abrasive.
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Hell I had jarrod the night of his 18th birthday at 12:10 pm he was 18 a whole 10 minutes and I nailed him
Young (18+) Boys For Sex
“Admin, I just found out about this; /groups.php?id=234
I respectfully think, for your consideration, that this is not a proper subject discussion for the site.”
He responded twice in this private chat. Obviously he didn’t think it was trivial. I can’t divulge what he said without his permission, but I try not to be frivolous with my questions about the site.
admin created the use of the @'s in order to mention aka tag another member. My guess is that he didn't think the entire Forum would be lit up in blue with member's names. CAT is one of member that overuses this feature. Note, she's already responding to dgraff, he's going to be notified of her response yet she still finds it necessary to mention/tag him AND she tagged admin, too. I do not believe that admin wants to be mentioned/tagged every time someone makes reference to him because THAT IS NONSENSE.
BTW, nonsense is one word.
perhaps your freind can start a new profile and understand some subject matter will get him tossed out and things will go well from now on.
It's not like we put him in prison for life without chance of parole. it's not like he was taken away by aliens for testing.
He was booted off a website. a temporary inconvenience.
It will be fine Bella,
just go enjoy a good lunch.
let's end all this
as for non sense, you may need to check my spell check!
This was not an opinion. This is something that can be injurious to un.deraged
ki.d, cost Admin the site, and could be illegal.
I understand that what matters to me might not matter to you and I don't care if it does or does not. If you think I'm cramming it down your throat, spit it out.
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Hey we have a member named boy4dad maybe you want to run to admin and try to change his name
● 16,Dec,20:30; member reported for Dangerous Behavior
● 16,Dec,21:13, (approximately 45 minutes after initial report), I was the first vote and I identified myself as the moderator of group in which the alleged posts were made.
● 17,Dec,02:26, (approximately 6 hours after initial report), tecsan voted and provided the following comment with his NO ABUSE vote - "No evidence presented. Should I take your word for it? I probably would vote the other way if I could see the comments if they existed. Honestly, I do not care to be in a group where fantasies like that exist. (If the comments involve what I think they involve)."
● 17,Dec,04:03 (approximately 7.5 hours after initial report), Daniel voted to DELETE with the following comment - "He is too much stuff about him fucking kids or himself as a kid touching his father's dick. Doesn't sound like an innocent fantasy anymore."
1.) I erred in saying that Daniel was not in the group, Daniel was a member.
2.) The reported member had made posts but prefaced them by saying they were "fantasy" thoughts.
3.) The posts went POOF! and how that happened, I have no idea.
4.) I booted Daniel from the group as a conflict of interest. WHY?, you ask? I can't recall my initial interaction with him however some time ago, he created multiple profiles that stalked me and blacklisted me. When I outed him on this, he (like another member, denied, denied, DENIED!) and then his primary profile, Daniel, blacklisted me. There's the conflict of interest that I spoke about.
There's no room for him in this group.
It confuses me that suddenly this 1 person has been sent "up the river" with no apparent possibility of return without divine intervention, when other members that have been banned,booted ,told to fly a large kite ,whatever, come back later and move right along with their lives.
Hey, I recall an eligible and vocal voting member getting all indignant because they felt it was unfair that anyone could be deleted without being warned or alerted of their infraction. Gee it wasn't that long ago, 6,7 months ago, there was a member deleted by the panel because a well liked SYC member, in essence, didn't want to deal with him any more. That kinda crap should NEVER happen.
With regard to the recent matter, I truly feel that voters need to verify the allegations. By the way, should people be deleted "just because" they were reported? NO! Should people be deleted because the name of the group is "offensive" to their sensibilities? NO! If voters can not weigh the FACTS, verify allegations and remain unbiased, they have NO BUSINESS VOTING.
Welcome the person back, explain to them that some of us acted in best interest of the majority and the site and apologize if the reasons were not accurate.
If they can't take a apology and move along then, they can fly a kite.
As for voting, I don't see why the voters id's should be available for anyone to see ,it should be anonymous . because if for example, Bella is angry to a point of wanting spite and revenge ,She would know exactly who to point the gun at.
How can a jury decide fairly and without bias if they have to vote in fear of revenge and spiteful behavior?
Do you really think admin doesn't look at the referrals? Do you think he leaves it totally up to us "ying-yangs" to make decisions that may effect his site? HECK NO! If there's something that is sensitive that could cause him problems, he doesn't wait for us to come to a +5 vote, he deletes the profile IMMEDIATELY! Believe that.
I want to talk about the fact that Winn-Dixie is selling WHOLE PIGS!
I think of the words to this song every time I read about a fellow getting married.
"another 1 bites the dust",
Another free man down.
My dad told me years ago, marriage can ruin a great friendship.
By bella! [Ignore] 20,Dec,23 18:07 other posts up above
What do you do? Save every post, action, and date that you are involved? The minute the votes reached +5, the Abuse Panel action disappears. How are you able to reconstruct the steps?
Then, in the same you posted at this date and time:
By bella! [Ignore] 20,Dec,23 22:53 other posts
If voters can not weigh the FACTS, verify allegations and remain unbiased, they have NO BUSINESS VOTING.
You, Bella!, are upset that people called you out indirectly for hosting a group that dealt with a forbidden subject and now you want to play the indignant one to change the chat.
And most of this chat was unnecessary except you took umbrage to my reason to delete that piece of garbage that six of us had the guts to vote out.
Kick rocks, you annoying pos. I'm not "hosting" a group that deals with a forbidden subject, I am moderating several groups, groups that I didn't know that I was getting or asked for! I'm not certain if the site's algorithms assigned groups to me OR if admin assigned them personally himself. My guess is that admin had second thoughts, aka concerns, about HOW HIS GROUPS WERE being monitored and moderated upon your pals abrupt departure.
Hey, let me know what groups you're moderating so I can critique your abilities!
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